To start off im almost 14 and he is 15. We have been firends for about 5 years and now he says he wants to go. So I said yes. Than about a week later this whole sex thing came up and he says if i dont have sex with him he will tell everyone i cheated on him and had sex with his best friend. We are supossed to do it this Friday so i need help fast. I want to save our relationship, at least as friends. Someone please help me!What should i do if my best guy firend wants to hve sex and i dont? how do i save the relationship?
Whatever you do, please don't sleep with him. I'm going to be blunt: he doesn't love you and I'd question whether or not he even cares about you as a friend. A friend, ESPECIALLY as a best friend, would never try to pressure you into having sex by threatening to blackmail you like that. That's a truly despicable act that indicates a strong potential for abuse. I personally don't even understand why you would want to remain friends with someone who clearly disrespects you by trying to take advantage of your trust. If I were you, I'd break up with him immediately (like, right now) and avoid him until he starts treating you the way a real friend would.What should i do if my best guy firend wants to hve sex and i dont? how do i save the relationship?
He's playing you like a fiddle, girl. You are too young to have sex, he is pressuring you for one thing only and that is it. Dump him because he is using you just for the SEX. This is no friend worth having to treat you this way. He is trying to scare you into having Sex with him. Ignore the threats and DUMP THE JERK, NOW!!!
Why would you even want to stay friends with him if he's doing this?
Have some self respect. End it now. You don't deserve that.
Exactly what is it about blackmailers (blackmail is a crime, BTW) you like that you would consider for one second keeping one in your life? Face it, anyone who attempts to force you to do something against your will is not a friend let a lone a best friend. Wake up and smell reality.
talk to him about it and if he can't understand then he's not good enough for you
Wow, that's tough. Well first of, he's not being a friend if he's threatning you like that, if i were you, i wouldn't want to save the friendship and if he reallys cares about you %26amp; the friendship you guys carry then he could make an *** of himself and say all of that, as long as you know it's not true, theres nothing you shouldn't worry about, don't make a mistake you'll regret later. Hope this helps !
Friday, August 20, 2010
Is it possible to be friends with a guy?
when your both really attracted to eachother and like eachother more than as friend type...i dont like jumping into a relationship without being a guys friend first for a good while..When i say friend i mean a real friend someone who i can be my self around and just hang out with a talk and have fun with..without kissing or cuo caking or adding any extra pressure.....If i cant be his friend then how can he become my boyfriend....Is it possible to be friends with a guy?
Go find a gay guy i heard they make good friends hahaIs it possible to be friends with a guy?
id say yes if u have good control over yur actions me on da other hand.... yeaa =]
Guys can't be casual friends with girls they find attractive period.
be friends first
of course! me and my bf are like best buds : )
Go find a gay guy i heard they make good friends hahaIs it possible to be friends with a guy?
id say yes if u have good control over yur actions me on da other hand.... yeaa =]
Guys can't be casual friends with girls they find attractive period.
be friends first
of course! me and my bf are like best buds : )
How can i tell my friend someone dont like her?
my best friend of 12 years likes my friend and he don't like her in the same way she feel about him and she is always like talking about him when im with her... and where we are all together she just stares at him the whole time and talks about how she don't have a boyfriend and he just tries to change the subject ..and she stole his phone number out my phone and calls him all the time from private numbers..so how can i tell her she needs to stop with out hurting her??How can i tell my friend someone dont like her?
TELL HER,
someone that u really like doesnt like you but u have to promise not to get mad. then say the guys name and explain to her that he is a lil anoyed of her...
if she gets mad find another friend...
she has no reason to get mad...
itz not ur fault!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!How can i tell my friend someone dont like her?
You shouldn't tell her. This is something she should learn for herself. Continue to be a positive friend but encourage her to actually come forward and tell the guy how she feels as opposed to flirting and borderline stalking tactics. The guy also needs to step up for himself. If he really didn't like all the attention he probably would have told her to stop by now, so this will probably continue until your friend actually approaches this guy point blank.
Yeah I agree you do just need to tell her. If she truly is your best friend she will listen to you and not get too angry. Point out what she's doing and show how obsessive she's being without using those words. Tell her the way to truly get the guys attention is too act confident and normal not needy and obvious. Tell her that you are all just better as friends anyway and it would be awkward for you if they started dating anyways. That way it gives her an out saying that she's going to do it for you not just because the guy doesn't like her.
Also, it might not hurt if you can find someone who does like her so she doesn't feel totally down on herself when you tell her that this guy doesn't.
Hope this helped. :)
I have the same situation. Just talk to her and tell her in a nice way that he's not interested. Or tell her about his flaws. Or have him tell her that he's not interested. Maybe then she'll get the picture. And if those don't work (when I did them they didn't) just tell her that it's really annoying when all she does is talk about him. Threaten her to not hang out anymore and maybe then she'll stop. When I did it she started to forget about him nd now she's in love with Justin Bieber, but she can't have him because I saw him FIRST!!!!
Make that boy have a girlfriend.
Try to make your friend like someone else.
Tell the girl that he does not like girls who do that and tell the boy the positive things about her and then you could try to hook them up.
Or just tell her that he does not like her she has been your friend for 12 years right. So she wont be mad at you.
And if you think she will get mad at you tell the boy to tell her nicely.
Or you could just make the boy act kind of mean to her and show her a boy that is nice,cute and likes her.
It's not your job to tell her. She won't listen to you anyway. It's the guy's job to tell her, and when he has enough of it, he will. If it hurts her feelings, that will be too bad, but sometimes people need to learn how to treat other people, and if they can't see it by circumstances, then they need to be told in words.
you could let her know in a nice way
that he doesn't really feel the same about her.....
But don't let that get to her because their are other guys out there!
I think she should know the Truth before she gets her feelings hurt
then she might be ''like why didn't you tell me this earlier'' that he didnt feel the same and that would hurt her more ...
best of luck!
it is going to be tough and she might think your jealous and like him yourself. Butt you should tell her, say i am telling you coz i care about you and i dont want you to get hurt later on. and maybe if she lays off and acts like she doesnt want him, he might start to like her. Tell her that. She will realise you are trying to help her.
Dear Young friend,
Don't tell her. Let her find out herself. If you tell her, she will think badly of you.
Just be a friend, and let her talk. Listen, that is what a good friend does. And she will discover soon enough that you are a good friend.
Biblelady75
It is not your place to tell her. It's his job. You say she is your friend do her a favor and stay out of it or I'll guarantee you she won't be your friend for long.A true friend trys to look out for the others feelings not bust their butt to give her bad news so they can gloat over it.
just tell him straight out that he likes you as a person but not as a friend or girlfriend eventually she will understand don't be mean or anything but you have to tell her or else he wont want to hang around you when she is around so think about how to tell her but you should tell her
You just should tell her that he likes her as a friend only, but I'm warning you she might get mad and say that you are just jealous and trying to get him for yourself, etc, so you might want to let the guy tell her himself.
Just tell her to chill out and the guy don,t like her the way she like him,you can do that because she is your friend.
Um, girl? I need to tell you something. He told me he doesn't like you the same way you like him, so...yeah. If she cries, let her.
Try telling her to not obsess, because he might not like her the same way. And also tell her that he might not want to talk all the time.
Tell her that he once mentioned that he only likes her as a friend and that if she doesn't back off it might damage the friendship.
just tell her. you cant avoid the situation or let her find out on her eventually.. she will have the same reaction better if yu just tell her
You have to tell him that she likes him, so he can tell her that he doesn't like her.
Just tell her. Honestly, my best friend is with me now and we discussed this question. We agree we'd prefer to be told if we were in your situation.
u cant protect her from everything. shes got life lessons to learn. just hint it at her, be like 'hes bad news' n if she doesnt listen thats her choice, it wont be ur fault
well tell her the truth and say it gently and nicely and shell understand trust me thats exactly what happened to my friend
You shouldnt have to tell her...the boy she likes needs to tell her
';Someone dislikes you';.
It's not your freaking business who she likes.
if you wanna be honest with your friend then you gotta tell her the truth...
remember the truth hurts.
Just tell her the truth that your friend doesnt like her u can't go wrong with just telling someone the truth
just tell her.. im sorry but he doesnt like you as a gf, just like a friend
tell her shes a dum ***** and give her a quarter to buy sumthin from da lil toy machine at sedanos
vagina
these types of questions have beeen repeated thousand of times
TELL HER STRAIGHTLY
TELL HER,
someone that u really like doesnt like you but u have to promise not to get mad. then say the guys name and explain to her that he is a lil anoyed of her...
if she gets mad find another friend...
she has no reason to get mad...
itz not ur fault!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!How can i tell my friend someone dont like her?
You shouldn't tell her. This is something she should learn for herself. Continue to be a positive friend but encourage her to actually come forward and tell the guy how she feels as opposed to flirting and borderline stalking tactics. The guy also needs to step up for himself. If he really didn't like all the attention he probably would have told her to stop by now, so this will probably continue until your friend actually approaches this guy point blank.
Yeah I agree you do just need to tell her. If she truly is your best friend she will listen to you and not get too angry. Point out what she's doing and show how obsessive she's being without using those words. Tell her the way to truly get the guys attention is too act confident and normal not needy and obvious. Tell her that you are all just better as friends anyway and it would be awkward for you if they started dating anyways. That way it gives her an out saying that she's going to do it for you not just because the guy doesn't like her.
Also, it might not hurt if you can find someone who does like her so she doesn't feel totally down on herself when you tell her that this guy doesn't.
Hope this helped. :)
I have the same situation. Just talk to her and tell her in a nice way that he's not interested. Or tell her about his flaws. Or have him tell her that he's not interested. Maybe then she'll get the picture. And if those don't work (when I did them they didn't) just tell her that it's really annoying when all she does is talk about him. Threaten her to not hang out anymore and maybe then she'll stop. When I did it she started to forget about him nd now she's in love with Justin Bieber, but she can't have him because I saw him FIRST!!!!
Make that boy have a girlfriend.
Try to make your friend like someone else.
Tell the girl that he does not like girls who do that and tell the boy the positive things about her and then you could try to hook them up.
Or just tell her that he does not like her she has been your friend for 12 years right. So she wont be mad at you.
And if you think she will get mad at you tell the boy to tell her nicely.
Or you could just make the boy act kind of mean to her and show her a boy that is nice,cute and likes her.
It's not your job to tell her. She won't listen to you anyway. It's the guy's job to tell her, and when he has enough of it, he will. If it hurts her feelings, that will be too bad, but sometimes people need to learn how to treat other people, and if they can't see it by circumstances, then they need to be told in words.
you could let her know in a nice way
that he doesn't really feel the same about her.....
But don't let that get to her because their are other guys out there!
I think she should know the Truth before she gets her feelings hurt
then she might be ''like why didn't you tell me this earlier'' that he didnt feel the same and that would hurt her more ...
best of luck!
it is going to be tough and she might think your jealous and like him yourself. Butt you should tell her, say i am telling you coz i care about you and i dont want you to get hurt later on. and maybe if she lays off and acts like she doesnt want him, he might start to like her. Tell her that. She will realise you are trying to help her.
Dear Young friend,
Don't tell her. Let her find out herself. If you tell her, she will think badly of you.
Just be a friend, and let her talk. Listen, that is what a good friend does. And she will discover soon enough that you are a good friend.
Biblelady75
It is not your place to tell her. It's his job. You say she is your friend do her a favor and stay out of it or I'll guarantee you she won't be your friend for long.A true friend trys to look out for the others feelings not bust their butt to give her bad news so they can gloat over it.
just tell him straight out that he likes you as a person but not as a friend or girlfriend eventually she will understand don't be mean or anything but you have to tell her or else he wont want to hang around you when she is around so think about how to tell her but you should tell her
You just should tell her that he likes her as a friend only, but I'm warning you she might get mad and say that you are just jealous and trying to get him for yourself, etc, so you might want to let the guy tell her himself.
Just tell her to chill out and the guy don,t like her the way she like him,you can do that because she is your friend.
Um, girl? I need to tell you something. He told me he doesn't like you the same way you like him, so...yeah. If she cries, let her.
Try telling her to not obsess, because he might not like her the same way. And also tell her that he might not want to talk all the time.
Tell her that he once mentioned that he only likes her as a friend and that if she doesn't back off it might damage the friendship.
just tell her. you cant avoid the situation or let her find out on her eventually.. she will have the same reaction better if yu just tell her
You have to tell him that she likes him, so he can tell her that he doesn't like her.
Just tell her. Honestly, my best friend is with me now and we discussed this question. We agree we'd prefer to be told if we were in your situation.
u cant protect her from everything. shes got life lessons to learn. just hint it at her, be like 'hes bad news' n if she doesnt listen thats her choice, it wont be ur fault
well tell her the truth and say it gently and nicely and shell understand trust me thats exactly what happened to my friend
You shouldnt have to tell her...the boy she likes needs to tell her
';Someone dislikes you';.
It's not your freaking business who she likes.
if you wanna be honest with your friend then you gotta tell her the truth...
remember the truth hurts.
Just tell her the truth that your friend doesnt like her u can't go wrong with just telling someone the truth
just tell her.. im sorry but he doesnt like you as a gf, just like a friend
tell her shes a dum ***** and give her a quarter to buy sumthin from da lil toy machine at sedanos
vagina
these types of questions have beeen repeated thousand of times
TELL HER STRAIGHTLY
Can someone help me out with this dream?
well, i was with my friend (someone) and he likes me, cause he told me. and after this one period at school he always walks to my last class and then I give him a hug goodbye, but in the dream, we were at my middle school, and instead of trying to giving me a hug goodbye, he tries to kiss, me but I push him away and he is bigger then me then he starts to force me to kiss him, and i struggle like someone would kidnapped a girl. but I don't know how but I manage to get away and then I start running around the school trying to get away from him, but then I am at the other end of the school and then I here my sister calling my name, saying that we could talk about this, but she said that in real life a couple days ago, then I woke up
mostly what I want to know is what did the conflict of him and I mean? well just cut my sister out of the dream, I HAVE A BF WHICH IS HIS FRIEND AS WELL. My bf and the guy that likes me are friends, and so i don't like him as a a bf, just as friend. tyCan someone help me out with this dream?
perhaps it's showing that the friend is having a war within himself and he's contemplating what to do, go for it even though his friend is dating you or stay put. However, on a normal day to day basis you wouldn't see these things or hear them, but subconsciously your mind may be trying to show you the struggle he goes through everyday because of his feelings for you-another tip-the whole hugging thing, sure you take it as only friendship but the problem is, it could be almost leading on in a way, so maybe you're seeing what may happen if you continue-just be careful.... I leave you with this:
';The course of true love never did run smooth.';
-ShakespeareCan someone help me out with this dream?
How is your relationship with your father?
You can dream, can't you.
perhaps it's showing that the friend is having a war within himself and he's contemplating what to do, go for it even though his friend is dating you or stay put. However, on a normal day to day basis you wouldn't see these things or hear them, but subconsciously your mind may be trying to show you the struggle he goes through everyday because of his feelings for you-another tip-the whole hugging thing, sure you take it as only friendship but the problem is, it could be almost leading on in a way, so maybe you're seeing what may happen if you continue-just be careful.... I leave you with this:
';The course of true love never did run smooth.';
-Shakespeare
mostly what I want to know is what did the conflict of him and I mean? well just cut my sister out of the dream, I HAVE A BF WHICH IS HIS FRIEND AS WELL. My bf and the guy that likes me are friends, and so i don't like him as a a bf, just as friend. tyCan someone help me out with this dream?
perhaps it's showing that the friend is having a war within himself and he's contemplating what to do, go for it even though his friend is dating you or stay put. However, on a normal day to day basis you wouldn't see these things or hear them, but subconsciously your mind may be trying to show you the struggle he goes through everyday because of his feelings for you-another tip-the whole hugging thing, sure you take it as only friendship but the problem is, it could be almost leading on in a way, so maybe you're seeing what may happen if you continue-just be careful.... I leave you with this:
';The course of true love never did run smooth.';
-ShakespeareCan someone help me out with this dream?
How is your relationship with your father?
You can dream, can't you.
perhaps it's showing that the friend is having a war within himself and he's contemplating what to do, go for it even though his friend is dating you or stay put. However, on a normal day to day basis you wouldn't see these things or hear them, but subconsciously your mind may be trying to show you the struggle he goes through everyday because of his feelings for you-another tip-the whole hugging thing, sure you take it as only friendship but the problem is, it could be almost leading on in a way, so maybe you're seeing what may happen if you continue-just be careful.... I leave you with this:
';The course of true love never did run smooth.';
-Shakespeare
Why is it so hard to make 'true' friends?
I will consider myself an honest person. Throughout my life the only types of 'friends' i find myself with are the ones who just use me and move on. I hv a few friends from school but they hv their lives. All I need to no is how do i meet someone whom i can consider a friend. Someone interesting, dependable and wont be like the others.........just for the moment.
Right now my only friends r my husband and my son. Well, he has his friends whom i 'share' but i want mine. Even one girlfriend......i hv nada. If any of u readers out there r like me and want to hv a 'true' friend who wont take u for granted please email me or drop me a line in this column.
Mind u im happy with my life just need a few good friends to enjoy it with. Sorry guys, i dont want to make my husband jealous. I'm looking for a female friend. Who has at least one kid. Im 31, stay at home mom. More info when u drop me a line. Hey, Im not a sorry case.Why is it so hard to make 'true' friends?
cuz lots of people are just stupid.
if u want true friends, just b urself and b true to urself. but seriously, dont trust everyone that u call 'friend', they have to prove to u that they are ur friends.
and all those fake friends...send them to hell!Why is it so hard to make 'true' friends?
ok
I am also interested in making true friends add me in ur messenger list
my id is vsenthil1981@yahoomail.com
Developing the kind of friendship that you want takes time, most times years and years to build up the trust and dependability of that person. Unless you are willing to put in the time and effort it takes to develop the kind of friendship you want, you will always have people that are acquaintances and not true friends. I have only three people, outside of my family, that I know that I can count on no matter what. All of them have been friends for more than 20 years.
Join groups that you have interests in, church or school organizations, and you will find people that you have a lot in common with that will turn out to be good friends.
GET A DOG... FOR REAL GET A DOG WALK IT AND TAKE IT TO ANIMAL EVENTS IN TEH COMMUNITY YOU'LL MEET OTHER ANIMAL LOVERS... ANIMAL LOVERS FOR THE MOST PART ARE COOL.... PLUS DOG ARE MORE LOYAL THEN PEOPLE ANYWAY.. PS MOST ANIMAL LOVES HAVE BEEN HURT BY OTHER PEOPLE THATS WHY THEY ARE ANIMAL LOVERS... SO RIGHT OFF THE BAT YOU FEEL ON ANOTHER .............. YOU DIGG??!!! GOOD LUCK
True friends are always with you.And you really like them and you know you guys will never fight and the thing of the fight is something not worth losing a friendship over.And they will always be by your side no matter what and will not join another group just because all of the populars or the crowed is there.They will always be by you no matter wut.
A true friend is someone who is never mean to you and makes you sad in anyway.And um,sometimes they can be boys too.But if you want a true girl friendlook for these.
Some one nice
Always with you
Never upsets you
Will never fight with you
Always talks and invites you to there party
And anything nice =)
But sometimes they have to move.=(
Right now my only friends r my husband and my son. Well, he has his friends whom i 'share' but i want mine. Even one girlfriend......i hv nada. If any of u readers out there r like me and want to hv a 'true' friend who wont take u for granted please email me or drop me a line in this column.
Mind u im happy with my life just need a few good friends to enjoy it with. Sorry guys, i dont want to make my husband jealous. I'm looking for a female friend. Who has at least one kid. Im 31, stay at home mom. More info when u drop me a line. Hey, Im not a sorry case.Why is it so hard to make 'true' friends?
cuz lots of people are just stupid.
if u want true friends, just b urself and b true to urself. but seriously, dont trust everyone that u call 'friend', they have to prove to u that they are ur friends.
and all those fake friends...send them to hell!Why is it so hard to make 'true' friends?
ok
I am also interested in making true friends add me in ur messenger list
my id is vsenthil1981@yahoomail.com
Developing the kind of friendship that you want takes time, most times years and years to build up the trust and dependability of that person. Unless you are willing to put in the time and effort it takes to develop the kind of friendship you want, you will always have people that are acquaintances and not true friends. I have only three people, outside of my family, that I know that I can count on no matter what. All of them have been friends for more than 20 years.
Join groups that you have interests in, church or school organizations, and you will find people that you have a lot in common with that will turn out to be good friends.
GET A DOG... FOR REAL GET A DOG WALK IT AND TAKE IT TO ANIMAL EVENTS IN TEH COMMUNITY YOU'LL MEET OTHER ANIMAL LOVERS... ANIMAL LOVERS FOR THE MOST PART ARE COOL.... PLUS DOG ARE MORE LOYAL THEN PEOPLE ANYWAY.. PS MOST ANIMAL LOVES HAVE BEEN HURT BY OTHER PEOPLE THATS WHY THEY ARE ANIMAL LOVERS... SO RIGHT OFF THE BAT YOU FEEL ON ANOTHER .............. YOU DIGG??!!! GOOD LUCK
True friends are always with you.And you really like them and you know you guys will never fight and the thing of the fight is something not worth losing a friendship over.And they will always be by your side no matter what and will not join another group just because all of the populars or the crowed is there.They will always be by you no matter wut.
A true friend is someone who is never mean to you and makes you sad in anyway.And um,sometimes they can be boys too.But if you want a true girl friendlook for these.
Some one nice
Always with you
Never upsets you
Will never fight with you
Always talks and invites you to there party
And anything nice =)
But sometimes they have to move.=(
Can someone help me out with this dream?
well, i was with my friend (someone) and he likes me, cause he told me. and after this one period at school he always walks to my last class and then I give him a hug goodbye, but in the dream, we were at my middle school, and instead of trying to giving me a hug goodbye, he tries to kiss, me but I push him away and he is bigger then me then he starts to force me to kiss him, and i struggle like someone would kidnapped a girl. but I don't know how but I manage to get away and then I start running around the school trying to get away from him, but then I am at the other end of the school and then I here my sister calling my name, saying that we could talk about this, then I woke up
mostly what I want to know is what did the conflict of him and I mean? I HAVE A BF WHICH IS HIS FRIEND AS WELL. I love my bf with all of heart. My bf and the guy that likes me are friends, and so i don't like him as a a bf, just as friend.
what can the dream mean? without the sisterCan someone help me out with this dream?
Usually it means that deep down you have some feelings for him, and your afraid of them, or you feel like you couldn't handle liking your bf's friend.Can someone help me out with this dream?
I agree with Person ';It just means you are uncomfortable with him liking you';
You are friends and you can handle that but you are uncomfortable about his feelings for you. You may even have begun to feel vulnerable around him. That is a very uncomfortable situation. You are obviously intimidated but his ';trying to kiss you';... this is from your dream. Your salvation was your sister who 'happened' to be looking for you. You were already running away from this 'friend'
You should talk to your sister about this, your dream is indicating who is an ideal person to understand your position in this situation. The worst she can say to you is she is unable to help you, but at least you have gotten the whole dream off of your chest.
It means that the person pushing themselves on you is making you very uneasy. If the circumstance continues tell your boyfriend how his ';friend'; is treating you behind his back.
i think you know subconsciously that this person accepts the hug but wants alot more, and you know that this type of relationship is unacceptable and dreaming this is your way of reading between the lines.
It just means you are uncomfortable with him liking you
well i think the meaning is that your uncomfortable with him and u are scared weather he maydo that to u?such dreams are common when a person thinks of his/her friends,enemys,bf or gf etc well thats wwhat it meansc++ wedding hair styles
mostly what I want to know is what did the conflict of him and I mean? I HAVE A BF WHICH IS HIS FRIEND AS WELL. I love my bf with all of heart. My bf and the guy that likes me are friends, and so i don't like him as a a bf, just as friend.
what can the dream mean? without the sisterCan someone help me out with this dream?
Usually it means that deep down you have some feelings for him, and your afraid of them, or you feel like you couldn't handle liking your bf's friend.Can someone help me out with this dream?
I agree with Person ';It just means you are uncomfortable with him liking you';
You are friends and you can handle that but you are uncomfortable about his feelings for you. You may even have begun to feel vulnerable around him. That is a very uncomfortable situation. You are obviously intimidated but his ';trying to kiss you';... this is from your dream. Your salvation was your sister who 'happened' to be looking for you. You were already running away from this 'friend'
You should talk to your sister about this, your dream is indicating who is an ideal person to understand your position in this situation. The worst she can say to you is she is unable to help you, but at least you have gotten the whole dream off of your chest.
It means that the person pushing themselves on you is making you very uneasy. If the circumstance continues tell your boyfriend how his ';friend'; is treating you behind his back.
i think you know subconsciously that this person accepts the hug but wants alot more, and you know that this type of relationship is unacceptable and dreaming this is your way of reading between the lines.
It just means you are uncomfortable with him liking you
well i think the meaning is that your uncomfortable with him and u are scared weather he maydo that to u?such dreams are common when a person thinks of his/her friends,enemys,bf or gf etc well thats wwhat it means
How do i become friends with someone who hates me?
we used to be friends but now she hates me? how do i get her back as a friend?How do i become friends with someone who hates me?
If someone hates you, they cant be your friend. But they can be your enemy.How do i become friends with someone who hates me?
If someones picking on her..Stand up for her...she might say i don't need your help but keep trying.. Do something that you both enjoy....It's like saying finding common ground...Sports..take her to the movie...Buy her a gift...Why does she hate you btw? Don't try to hard though or she will just hate you more..Or you can make her feel bad that shes ignoring you (if shes ignoring you) Don't be her ********* either cuz she'll take advantage of you and other kidz will make fun of you. Hope i helped
you usually wouldnt want to be friends with someone who hates you
Theyre on a power trip.. hate them back and see how they re-act
If she hates you why would you wanna be her friend again?
If someone hates you, they cant be your friend. But they can be your enemy.How do i become friends with someone who hates me?
If someones picking on her..Stand up for her...she might say i don't need your help but keep trying.. Do something that you both enjoy....It's like saying finding common ground...Sports..take her to the movie...Buy her a gift...Why does she hate you btw? Don't try to hard though or she will just hate you more..Or you can make her feel bad that shes ignoring you (if shes ignoring you) Don't be her ********* either cuz she'll take advantage of you and other kidz will make fun of you. Hope i helped
you usually wouldnt want to be friends with someone who hates you
Theyre on a power trip.. hate them back and see how they re-act
If she hates you why would you wanna be her friend again?
How to make friends with someone?
I'm kind of loner and i hate 2 be alone all day.....
My friends not even play with me
I'm silent evry day at school soooo...
i want 2 meet some new friends
what should i do???.....
plz don't pose a s2pid questionHow to make friends with someone?
Well think about it. How did you make friends with those ';used to be friends'; of yours? Anyways, just go up to the person and say hi. Just a casual hi. When they respond, say how's your day and you know, just all the nice stuff. In school, sit next to a person or get to know a person in class. You could also ask straight out, ';could I be your friend?'; or ';Wanna be my friend?'; Good luck. I hoped this helped a little.How to make friends with someone?
I'm a loner myself. The best way for me was to just open up and start a conversation with everyone. It's difficult, however I found that the best way was to make the first move in starting a conversation. If the other person responds negatively really it's there problem. Join a club at school and make it mission to meet at least 3 new people.
Make a mission for yourself each day. it could be something small like say hi to at least 3 strangers. Have fun. =)
Awwwwh im sorry,well dont be shy! if a person is really nice and would want to talk to you they will! try and talk to you but there is a point where people get reallly shy and other people just cant stand it . no one likes a shy person. sorry to say but its the truth. just try and talk to people. i used to be shy when i was lil but i took lil steps and started doing things i would never ever do, so thats what you have to do, just ask questions. : like hey where did you get that ...? i love your shirt? cute shoes? everyone likes compliments ! if you are really nice and start saying good stuff to them (not too much) they will love that, everyone does! im sure they will start talking to you! JUST DONT BE SO SHY AND IN YOUR OWN LIL WORLD! talk. you onnly live once. give everyone a chance you dont just need 2 or 3 friends. ! :) you could do it.
I know how you feel, I'm in a bit of a rut socially too. you have too speak up and put yourself out there. Make your self known to other people and if your own friends wont hang out with you then **** them, there not your friends. At school find some new ppl who will talk to you and start hanging out with them at school, from there start calling them.
Hmm, I was in the same situation as you last year.
Just be yourself
Don't try to look cool, people think thats lame.
Just be 100% you and go talk to other people, because they are not gonna come talk to you most of the times.
Good Luck Making new friends ^^
I was like that last year, because I had a controlling boyfriend. And I had to completely rebuild my friendships. Just smile and be open. Say hey to people when you walk by them. Just be friendly. If you had old friends that you don't talk to anymore.. try talking to them again.
just start dressing cool.
see if people notice you.
or just start talking to a little bit of people.
as time goes by people will start asking you to be friends.
but do not pick one flick of friends.
talk to all kinds of people.
if you do that people will start talking to u
Siera, eventually you have overcome your shyness by talking. Start slow try not to impress anyone but yourself. Soon you will find yourself surrounded by people and have forgotten that you use to be a loner.
well if they are not coming to you then approach them they are probably scared to approach you.
do you do anything that creeps them out or annoys them?
your friends not even play with you?
plz don't pose a s2pid question?
come again?
just talk 2 ppl
or smile then say hi n ppl would b your friend
or
join do sumthing u lyk in a place where ppl would the same intrest would b n 1ce u get chattin ull have loads of m8s
Act like their impressing you or like your learning from them even tho their stupid. As an engineer i have to act dumb in order to have friends
smile and be open and share your thoughts be friendly
i will be your friend
dazipod@yahoo.com
My friends not even play with me
I'm silent evry day at school soooo...
i want 2 meet some new friends
what should i do???.....
plz don't pose a s2pid questionHow to make friends with someone?
Well think about it. How did you make friends with those ';used to be friends'; of yours? Anyways, just go up to the person and say hi. Just a casual hi. When they respond, say how's your day and you know, just all the nice stuff. In school, sit next to a person or get to know a person in class. You could also ask straight out, ';could I be your friend?'; or ';Wanna be my friend?'; Good luck. I hoped this helped a little.How to make friends with someone?
I'm a loner myself. The best way for me was to just open up and start a conversation with everyone. It's difficult, however I found that the best way was to make the first move in starting a conversation. If the other person responds negatively really it's there problem. Join a club at school and make it mission to meet at least 3 new people.
Make a mission for yourself each day. it could be something small like say hi to at least 3 strangers. Have fun. =)
Awwwwh im sorry,well dont be shy! if a person is really nice and would want to talk to you they will! try and talk to you but there is a point where people get reallly shy and other people just cant stand it . no one likes a shy person. sorry to say but its the truth. just try and talk to people. i used to be shy when i was lil but i took lil steps and started doing things i would never ever do, so thats what you have to do, just ask questions. : like hey where did you get that ...? i love your shirt? cute shoes? everyone likes compliments ! if you are really nice and start saying good stuff to them (not too much) they will love that, everyone does! im sure they will start talking to you! JUST DONT BE SO SHY AND IN YOUR OWN LIL WORLD! talk. you onnly live once. give everyone a chance you dont just need 2 or 3 friends. ! :) you could do it.
I know how you feel, I'm in a bit of a rut socially too. you have too speak up and put yourself out there. Make your self known to other people and if your own friends wont hang out with you then **** them, there not your friends. At school find some new ppl who will talk to you and start hanging out with them at school, from there start calling them.
Hmm, I was in the same situation as you last year.
Just be yourself
Don't try to look cool, people think thats lame.
Just be 100% you and go talk to other people, because they are not gonna come talk to you most of the times.
Good Luck Making new friends ^^
I was like that last year, because I had a controlling boyfriend. And I had to completely rebuild my friendships. Just smile and be open. Say hey to people when you walk by them. Just be friendly. If you had old friends that you don't talk to anymore.. try talking to them again.
just start dressing cool.
see if people notice you.
or just start talking to a little bit of people.
as time goes by people will start asking you to be friends.
but do not pick one flick of friends.
talk to all kinds of people.
if you do that people will start talking to u
Siera, eventually you have overcome your shyness by talking. Start slow try not to impress anyone but yourself. Soon you will find yourself surrounded by people and have forgotten that you use to be a loner.
well if they are not coming to you then approach them they are probably scared to approach you.
do you do anything that creeps them out or annoys them?
your friends not even play with you?
plz don't pose a s2pid question?
come again?
just talk 2 ppl
or smile then say hi n ppl would b your friend
or
join do sumthing u lyk in a place where ppl would the same intrest would b n 1ce u get chattin ull have loads of m8s
Act like their impressing you or like your learning from them even tho their stupid. As an engineer i have to act dumb in order to have friends
smile and be open and share your thoughts be friendly
i will be your friend
dazipod@yahoo.com
How can you start being good friends with someone online?
On MySpace... I'm in 9th grade, and my friend and I go to the same school. What do I start saying (or asking?) ? How can I start being a good friend?How can you start being good friends with someone online?
someone ';on line'; is much different as
someone who goes to your school that YOU know
I could tell you:
1) I am a pilot
2) I am a 9-1-1 Sheriff's Radio Dispatcher
3) I have won the lottery millions ($21)
4) I am a guy
three of the four are correct - but you still don;t know me
and you should not trust me - as I am just another user
If I went to YOUR school - then yeah - if you really know it's ';ME';
*******************************
be careful - and that you can trust
by the way - if you guessed #3 - you were right
all the best (trust ME)How can you start being good friends with someone online?
Be nice to him. Be yourself.
If you are already acquaintances with the person (you know them but don't really KNOW them) then its a good chance to jump at to become good friends. If this person is someone you have only seen but not contacted in real life, its better if you just introduce yourself first, have some small talk and swap emails or whatever otherwise it will seem a little creepy.. like they'll be asking ';How did you get my profile?'; or something.
You can pm them with some kinda convo like how you found your class today and ask about theirs. If you find a common interest, the conversation usually expands ... but honestly just be yourself and don't try to be even less otherwise you may lead to a false friendship, and lose the chance at a real one with this person.
just say hi here %26amp; theere, then just start tlking more, see them in school... smile at them
someone ';on line'; is much different as
someone who goes to your school that YOU know
I could tell you:
1) I am a pilot
2) I am a 9-1-1 Sheriff's Radio Dispatcher
3) I have won the lottery millions ($21)
4) I am a guy
three of the four are correct - but you still don;t know me
and you should not trust me - as I am just another user
If I went to YOUR school - then yeah - if you really know it's ';ME';
*******************************
be careful - and that you can trust
by the way - if you guessed #3 - you were right
all the best (trust ME)How can you start being good friends with someone online?
Be nice to him. Be yourself.
If you are already acquaintances with the person (you know them but don't really KNOW them) then its a good chance to jump at to become good friends. If this person is someone you have only seen but not contacted in real life, its better if you just introduce yourself first, have some small talk and swap emails or whatever otherwise it will seem a little creepy.. like they'll be asking ';How did you get my profile?'; or something.
You can pm them with some kinda convo like how you found your class today and ask about theirs. If you find a common interest, the conversation usually expands ... but honestly just be yourself and don't try to be even less otherwise you may lead to a false friendship, and lose the chance at a real one with this person.
just say hi here %26amp; theere, then just start tlking more, see them in school... smile at them
How can I be friends with someone I love?
We can't be anything more, but I don't know how to do it. Please I need serious help.How can I be friends with someone I love?
Freddie - I understand this situation completely.
Years ago, I found myself falling in love with my partner's best friend. I never acted on my feelings or desires, but that didn't stop them from being there. I loved this man so much. I was even considering running away with him. He was everything I ever thought I needed in someone. It seemed that we were perfect for each other. It feel for him really hard. He also seemed to be into me. At least, he acted as if he was....ALL the time. We were two peas in a pod. This went on for about 5 yrs.
I finally one day, gained the strength to tell this guy how I felt. I poured out my heart and offered to give myself to him so we could be together. Then, like a shot in the heart, he turned me down. I felt like such an idiot. I realized that no matter how much I felt for him, there was no way that we would ever be together.
Least to say, I became very bitter. I stayed away from any social interaction with him. I couldn't stand the pain of just seeing him. It was pure torture. A while later, I was able to see him without being heartbroken.
My partner and I worked on our relationship and rekindled the fires of passion. And, this guy moved on and got a new bf. We hung out with them a few times, and the feelings I had had all left. I think I still had/have a bit of bitterness still there for him.
But, I looked at him in a different light. I started to look at all the small things about him that irritated me. Years back, I just overlooked them. But now, I could see every single flaw. I put all of my focus on them....
Now...I have no feelings left for him. I haven't seen him in a good 10 yrs. At least, not in person. I saw is pic online a few months ago, and it made me laugh. He now looks so much older and different. I don't even find him attractive.
The point is this. When facing a sitation like this, you have to do what you can to save yourself pain. In the long run, it's about you and your feelings anyway. Being in this kind of a relationship isn't easy. I don't know if a friendship can last through the romantic feelings. For me, it couldn't. I did what I had to, in order to protect myself. The only advise I can give is that you do the same.
Jeez....life is rough sometimes....damn it!!
Hang tight...I'll be here for you, if you need me.How can I be friends with someone I love?
well, im sorry you guys cant be 'anything more', but you can still be friends!!! dont worry =)
but it kinda depends on whether the other person knows if you love them. Because if they do, it might be a bit awkward (dunno if i spelt it right) at first, but if you really do like him, you'll like spending time with them, so you can be friends again, like the good old times :P
if the other person isnt aware that you like them in 'that way', its down to you. i dunno if that makes it easier though. But as you love that person, obviously you'll like being with them, and you'll support them, so you CAN be friends. Just be yourself, and give it time.......
but it'll be hard, and if they get a bf or gf, you might get jealous...
but if you think its worth it being friends with them, then go for it!! it might be a good idea to stop seeing him for a whiel
hope it all turns out well!!!
ok this is a very tuff spot ur beetween a rock and a hard place but to be honest and i will be honest its going to be a lot harder than u think i wont suger coat it to start with you need to spend less time with them that will be hard but the hardest part is you might want to tell the person that u love them let tehm know so they dont lead you on even in a joke it will make things easier if they know the situation that will be the hardest part! but once you both know where u stand it should be easier to deal with i have a friend in the very same situation as you right now at this very moment and hes been fighting it for a year and the girl knows it made things easier simply because she dousnt joke about flirting or anything like that any more if its a guy u like then it should be easier if hes straight then it will be a bit more embarassing
other than that its going to be a sit down and discuss situation you need to get everything in the open let them know so they can help u deal with it youl never manage to do it yourself good luck let us know what happens
I've done it before although i tend to do almost anything for them as if nothing is a problem no-one ever noticed though. Its easy if you don't give them a reason to know you just talk to them alot and hang out alot you end up more like a best freind though.
You are in a pretty rough spot. I think it's better to stay away from that person and focus your mind on something else so that you'll forget about him/her. I know it seems harsh, but you mustn't suffer anymore than you already have.
It's tough to separate love from infatuation...
Even in a long term relationship, we have to remind ourselves why we love that person at times, in order to not be tricked into the ';grass is greener'; type thing.
Yes ya can, yes ya can, yes ya can!!!!!!! Well, if you want to be trifling, that is!!! First, youre their friend, then when they get real emotional and need comfort........Ya comfort them baby!!!
Sry, just had LOTS of chocolate, ignore my answer!!!
idk i've been doing it for years though. you just have to be a friend first and formost. because thats what they need now, not a lover.
Happened to me last year
Met a guy and we became good friends for about 7 months and then I fell for him and I stopped seeing him
I cried for months but a regular friendship would never have worked - too much of an imbalance
You cant, sorry. Learn from heterosexual relationship. Nobody make friends with the one they love, its just a polite gesture saying bye bye.
Freddie - I understand this situation completely.
Years ago, I found myself falling in love with my partner's best friend. I never acted on my feelings or desires, but that didn't stop them from being there. I loved this man so much. I was even considering running away with him. He was everything I ever thought I needed in someone. It seemed that we were perfect for each other. It feel for him really hard. He also seemed to be into me. At least, he acted as if he was....ALL the time. We were two peas in a pod. This went on for about 5 yrs.
I finally one day, gained the strength to tell this guy how I felt. I poured out my heart and offered to give myself to him so we could be together. Then, like a shot in the heart, he turned me down. I felt like such an idiot. I realized that no matter how much I felt for him, there was no way that we would ever be together.
Least to say, I became very bitter. I stayed away from any social interaction with him. I couldn't stand the pain of just seeing him. It was pure torture. A while later, I was able to see him without being heartbroken.
My partner and I worked on our relationship and rekindled the fires of passion. And, this guy moved on and got a new bf. We hung out with them a few times, and the feelings I had had all left. I think I still had/have a bit of bitterness still there for him.
But, I looked at him in a different light. I started to look at all the small things about him that irritated me. Years back, I just overlooked them. But now, I could see every single flaw. I put all of my focus on them....
Now...I have no feelings left for him. I haven't seen him in a good 10 yrs. At least, not in person. I saw is pic online a few months ago, and it made me laugh. He now looks so much older and different. I don't even find him attractive.
The point is this. When facing a sitation like this, you have to do what you can to save yourself pain. In the long run, it's about you and your feelings anyway. Being in this kind of a relationship isn't easy. I don't know if a friendship can last through the romantic feelings. For me, it couldn't. I did what I had to, in order to protect myself. The only advise I can give is that you do the same.
Jeez....life is rough sometimes....damn it!!
Hang tight...I'll be here for you, if you need me.How can I be friends with someone I love?
well, im sorry you guys cant be 'anything more', but you can still be friends!!! dont worry =)
but it kinda depends on whether the other person knows if you love them. Because if they do, it might be a bit awkward (dunno if i spelt it right) at first, but if you really do like him, you'll like spending time with them, so you can be friends again, like the good old times :P
if the other person isnt aware that you like them in 'that way', its down to you. i dunno if that makes it easier though. But as you love that person, obviously you'll like being with them, and you'll support them, so you CAN be friends. Just be yourself, and give it time.......
but it'll be hard, and if they get a bf or gf, you might get jealous...
but if you think its worth it being friends with them, then go for it!! it might be a good idea to stop seeing him for a whiel
hope it all turns out well!!!
ok this is a very tuff spot ur beetween a rock and a hard place but to be honest and i will be honest its going to be a lot harder than u think i wont suger coat it to start with you need to spend less time with them that will be hard but the hardest part is you might want to tell the person that u love them let tehm know so they dont lead you on even in a joke it will make things easier if they know the situation that will be the hardest part! but once you both know where u stand it should be easier to deal with i have a friend in the very same situation as you right now at this very moment and hes been fighting it for a year and the girl knows it made things easier simply because she dousnt joke about flirting or anything like that any more if its a guy u like then it should be easier if hes straight then it will be a bit more embarassing
other than that its going to be a sit down and discuss situation you need to get everything in the open let them know so they can help u deal with it youl never manage to do it yourself good luck let us know what happens
I've done it before although i tend to do almost anything for them as if nothing is a problem no-one ever noticed though. Its easy if you don't give them a reason to know you just talk to them alot and hang out alot you end up more like a best freind though.
You are in a pretty rough spot. I think it's better to stay away from that person and focus your mind on something else so that you'll forget about him/her. I know it seems harsh, but you mustn't suffer anymore than you already have.
It's tough to separate love from infatuation...
Even in a long term relationship, we have to remind ourselves why we love that person at times, in order to not be tricked into the ';grass is greener'; type thing.
Yes ya can, yes ya can, yes ya can!!!!!!! Well, if you want to be trifling, that is!!! First, youre their friend, then when they get real emotional and need comfort........Ya comfort them baby!!!
Sry, just had LOTS of chocolate, ignore my answer!!!
idk i've been doing it for years though. you just have to be a friend first and formost. because thats what they need now, not a lover.
Happened to me last year
Met a guy and we became good friends for about 7 months and then I fell for him and I stopped seeing him
I cried for months but a regular friendship would never have worked - too much of an imbalance
You cant, sorry. Learn from heterosexual relationship. Nobody make friends with the one they love, its just a polite gesture saying bye bye.
How to deal with my cruel friend?
She rolls her eyes at me, storms off when I give more attention to someone else, and constantly tries to compare herself to me with grades. She disrespects my friends so I can't hang with both of them at the same time. Our mothers are both best friends so I'm around her a lot. I don't want her out of my life but I do want to somehow make this stop. She makes me so uncomfortable because she basically makes me choose betewen her or my other friends. Someone please give me good advice!How to deal with my cruel friend?
She is a very spoiled selfish girl and you need to tell her if she continues to roll her eyes and storm off and make things difficult for you, she will force you to see much less of her. Then do it. She is taking terrible advantage of you and regardless of your mother's friendship with her mother, you cannot allow her to bully you and intimidate you, you can and MUST stop her by warning her she is going to cause you to stop seeing her at all unless she changes her behavior.How to deal with my cruel friend?
That would be hard to deal with.. hmm.. i think that you will have to decide that if u want to be friends with her you will either accept the behavior or voice your dislike for her immature jealousy. It's hard to confront friends with this type of conversation but just tell her exactly how her behavior makes you feel, and how it affects your friendships. She may get mad but at least you stood up for yourself as well as all your other friends that treat you well.
she wants you all to herself. tell her to stop the behavior or you are going to have to discontinue the friendship. tell her you feel she is acting childish when you give attention to someone else and it makes you very uncomfortable. tell her that your other friends have nothing against her and you will not choose her over them.
Well, this friend of yours seems like she likes to have attention a lot.
You should talk to her and let her know how you feel.
If she was a good friend, she would understand and she wouldn't make you choose who your friends should be.
Just let her know. She might get mad, but she'll get over it.
hope that helped:)
You need to talk to her and try to understand what her problem is. Try not to yell but I can't say that it won't be an arguement. Tell her that you have other friends even though you guys are close. Tell her to get her own friends and she'll see. Or if it's that bad find someone FOR her and see if that will work.
it looks like you have no choice. But u shud have your friends come along bcoz i gus she doesnt give you all the happiness you need. however much you try to please her u wont be happy and she wont ntice that. do as your heart tell you. besides she is like family so you wont lose her, let her also get use to your friends.
go with someone who is your real friend, ditch the ***** get with the hero or something your better off going with someone who is nice to you, you shouldn't have to choose like that
She is a very spoiled selfish girl and you need to tell her if she continues to roll her eyes and storm off and make things difficult for you, she will force you to see much less of her. Then do it. She is taking terrible advantage of you and regardless of your mother's friendship with her mother, you cannot allow her to bully you and intimidate you, you can and MUST stop her by warning her she is going to cause you to stop seeing her at all unless she changes her behavior.How to deal with my cruel friend?
That would be hard to deal with.. hmm.. i think that you will have to decide that if u want to be friends with her you will either accept the behavior or voice your dislike for her immature jealousy. It's hard to confront friends with this type of conversation but just tell her exactly how her behavior makes you feel, and how it affects your friendships. She may get mad but at least you stood up for yourself as well as all your other friends that treat you well.
she wants you all to herself. tell her to stop the behavior or you are going to have to discontinue the friendship. tell her you feel she is acting childish when you give attention to someone else and it makes you very uncomfortable. tell her that your other friends have nothing against her and you will not choose her over them.
Well, this friend of yours seems like she likes to have attention a lot.
You should talk to her and let her know how you feel.
If she was a good friend, she would understand and she wouldn't make you choose who your friends should be.
Just let her know. She might get mad, but she'll get over it.
hope that helped:)
You need to talk to her and try to understand what her problem is. Try not to yell but I can't say that it won't be an arguement. Tell her that you have other friends even though you guys are close. Tell her to get her own friends and she'll see. Or if it's that bad find someone FOR her and see if that will work.
it looks like you have no choice. But u shud have your friends come along bcoz i gus she doesnt give you all the happiness you need. however much you try to please her u wont be happy and she wont ntice that. do as your heart tell you. besides she is like family so you wont lose her, let her also get use to your friends.
go with someone who is your real friend, ditch the ***** get with the hero or something your better off going with someone who is nice to you, you shouldn't have to choose like that
Should i be mad at my boyfriend for being friends with someone who tried to break us up?
YES it's a girl she has been trying to break us up for three years and i found out he was friends with her on myspace then he deleted her and then i told him that i wouldn't get on myspace as much because i am really busy and now he is friends with her again should i be a Little worried about how faithful he is?Should i be mad at my boyfriend for being friends with someone who tried to break us up?
Grow up!
You and your BF are entitled to choose your friends. You have no right to tell him who he cannot be friends with. What it is, is you're jealous and insecure. If you weren't this wouldn't matter.Should i be mad at my boyfriend for being friends with someone who tried to break us up?
He might have feelings for her, and she might have feelings for him...
no you shouldn't everybody is friends with each other on myspace i except anybody.But if its really botheing you tell him how you feel calmly
I would feel very threatened personally, and unfortunately in that situation I would also approach him very aggressively and demand he tell me what is going on.
That may or may not work for you however.
i would be soooo mad at him!! but i think you should chat to him and tell him how you feel about her! if he sees you dont like it then maybe he will change but if he doesn't you should just give that girl the evils and the cold shoulder!! It should work if she tries it again then i think you should talk to him again if he isnt bothered then you shud maybe dump him...its up to you
Sammieeeeeeeeeeeee x
That's strange. I say yes, you should be mad if he knows she is trying to break you guys up. Not necessarily because he may be unfaithful, but if he considers your relationship a priority, he shouldn't want to be friends with anyone who is trying to ruin it.
be with your boyfriend, try to make him like u more... he might be leaving u for that new girl
YEAH.
That would mean he didn't respect your feelings.c++ wedding hair styles
Grow up!
You and your BF are entitled to choose your friends. You have no right to tell him who he cannot be friends with. What it is, is you're jealous and insecure. If you weren't this wouldn't matter.Should i be mad at my boyfriend for being friends with someone who tried to break us up?
He might have feelings for her, and she might have feelings for him...
no you shouldn't everybody is friends with each other on myspace i except anybody.But if its really botheing you tell him how you feel calmly
I would feel very threatened personally, and unfortunately in that situation I would also approach him very aggressively and demand he tell me what is going on.
That may or may not work for you however.
i would be soooo mad at him!! but i think you should chat to him and tell him how you feel about her! if he sees you dont like it then maybe he will change but if he doesn't you should just give that girl the evils and the cold shoulder!! It should work if she tries it again then i think you should talk to him again if he isnt bothered then you shud maybe dump him...its up to you
Sammieeeeeeeeeeeee x
That's strange. I say yes, you should be mad if he knows she is trying to break you guys up. Not necessarily because he may be unfaithful, but if he considers your relationship a priority, he shouldn't want to be friends with anyone who is trying to ruin it.
be with your boyfriend, try to make him like u more... he might be leaving u for that new girl
YEAH.
That would mean he didn't respect your feelings.
How to become friends with someone i barely know?
ok so im new at my school and im trying to make some friends. a lot of people seem like they want to talk to me but when they do idk what to say. for example theres this girl on my bus that sits next to me like everyday she sais hi sometimes but i feel like we have nothing else to talk about if u were in that situation what would u say?How to become friends with someone i barely know?
You can ask the girl that sits next to you what class she is in, what classes she likes/dislikes, how her weekend was etc. You can also ask others these questions - this way you slowly get to know more about people and the more you know about them, the easier it is to make the transition to friendship. Good luck :-)How to become friends with someone i barely know?
First of all, ask what her name is. Then maybe ask each other about favorite bands or school subjects and stuff like that. Find something that you have in common and stay on that topic. Share your opinion about stuff like school lunches? Lol. I've been in a simialar situation. But then again, it was in kindergarden. Haha. But I'm sure it'll work and it sounds like she wants to be your if she sits next to you every day. Good luck!
You can ask the girl that sits next to you what class she is in, what classes she likes/dislikes, how her weekend was etc. You can also ask others these questions - this way you slowly get to know more about people and the more you know about them, the easier it is to make the transition to friendship. Good luck :-)How to become friends with someone i barely know?
First of all, ask what her name is. Then maybe ask each other about favorite bands or school subjects and stuff like that. Find something that you have in common and stay on that topic. Share your opinion about stuff like school lunches? Lol. I've been in a simialar situation. But then again, it was in kindergarden. Haha. But I'm sure it'll work and it sounds like she wants to be your if she sits next to you every day. Good luck!
How can you tell how long you have been friends with someone on Instant Messenger?
I also want to know how can I retrieve old messages from years ago?How can you tell how long you have been friends with someone on Instant Messenger?
You could look at the History of your messages in the Instant Messenger, if you have saved them from last time. This will show the date of every friends you have chat with, including the time of chat.How can you tell how long you have been friends with someone on Instant Messenger?
have a memo and specified the date you first encounter him/her.
You could look at the History of your messages in the Instant Messenger, if you have saved them from last time. This will show the date of every friends you have chat with, including the time of chat.How can you tell how long you have been friends with someone on Instant Messenger?
have a memo and specified the date you first encounter him/her.
How do i DE- friend someone?
i met this girl. she's very nice. she's from out of town and i decided to make friends with her. ever since then she's been saying im her first friend and she's happy for that.
as i got to know her, i realized she drank too much, smoked too much and hanging out with strange guys.
i cannot deal with it and dont want to hang out with her anymore.
what should i do? i feel bad.How do i DE- friend someone?
Don't take her calls too much, don't meet up with her whenever she wants. Just start distancing yourself %26amp; she'll find other people to bother. Or, you could just flat out tell her. I did that with a girl who was very similar. I sent her an email and just said please do not contact me again. She still did but she knows the friendship is over now.How do i DE- friend someone?
Don't feel bad, this happens all too often. Just slowly phase out the friendship. Slowly quit hanging out so often. If she's hanging out with strange guys, she'll not miss you.
Never be the first to initiate contact. Be ';busy'; when she contacts you. Eventually she will get the message.
as i got to know her, i realized she drank too much, smoked too much and hanging out with strange guys.
i cannot deal with it and dont want to hang out with her anymore.
what should i do? i feel bad.How do i DE- friend someone?
Don't take her calls too much, don't meet up with her whenever she wants. Just start distancing yourself %26amp; she'll find other people to bother. Or, you could just flat out tell her. I did that with a girl who was very similar. I sent her an email and just said please do not contact me again. She still did but she knows the friendship is over now.How do i DE- friend someone?
Don't feel bad, this happens all too often. Just slowly phase out the friendship. Slowly quit hanging out so often. If she's hanging out with strange guys, she'll not miss you.
Never be the first to initiate contact. Be ';busy'; when she contacts you. Eventually she will get the message.
How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
hey people, i hope this isnt a creepy question but there is this girl that i would really like to be friends with and i want to put in an effort to be friends with her but i only have her phone number and i dont really see her in my neighborhood even though she lives like a few blocks away so what can i do to either aproach her by text or whatever, just become friends?How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
A phone number is a great start. Call her up and be like, 'lets chill'. Lets go for a walk, or play NHL 09 on the PS3. Something to get the ball rolling. Once you get to know her, it will be smooth sailing.How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
Talking. (:
Simple as that.
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Call her and tell her to meet up with you somewhere.Face to Face
if ur not friends with her.....howd u get her #?
A phone number is a great start. Call her up and be like, 'lets chill'. Lets go for a walk, or play NHL 09 on the PS3. Something to get the ball rolling. Once you get to know her, it will be smooth sailing.How to make friends with someone with only their phone number?
Talking. (:
Simple as that.
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Call her and tell her to meet up with you somewhere.Face to Face
if ur not friends with her.....howd u get her #?
I have been friends with someone for a very long time and i am falling in love with them. how do i tell them?
I have been friends with a boy for a very long time and am beggining to fall in love with them. however, this person is straight and not gay, as i am. what do i do? do i tell this person or not? also, i have been asked to join in in a threesome with this person and his girlfriend. i have said yes. is this right? what advice would you give?I have been friends with someone for a very long time and i am falling in love with them. how do i tell them?
Hiya!
Although others probably will not agree, I say that if you live your life avoiding situations because you are afraid of the outcome you will never be truly happy. Tell your friend how you feel, if he is straight he will explain to you why this cannot work, if he has invited you to partake in a threesome it leads me to believe that maybe he is a bit curious or possibly bi. Either way, I don't believe you should enter into the threesome with him because I think that it may simply be sex for them, but something so much more intimate to you... Tread Lightly but be honest!!!
Hope this helps!
DawnI have been friends with someone for a very long time and i am falling in love with them. how do i tell them?
Hi
If he has a girlfriend and isnt gay you need to put a stop to it now!!! if you have a 3sum it will make things worse and you would properly lose him as a friend altogether!! if he is straight remember he is going to want a 3sum for his g/f which means you properly wont be donig anything with him just her!! not good if you are gay!!! I think deep down you know you cannot be with him so you need to step away otherwise things will get worse i know it is hard because he is your friend and you feel you can talk to him but i dont think you should take it any further
If he is a friend and you want to keep him as such, DO NOT enter a 3 some. You should just tell him no and explain why. Worst he can do is say he doesn't feel the same, then if he dumps you as a friend, he never really was.
Any relationship should always be based on open, honest, direct communication, as you always know where you stand, and it saves misunderstandings.
If you a guy you probably don't have much of a chance, unless he comes out of the closet.
As to your last remark, one word: WTF
Hiya!
Although others probably will not agree, I say that if you live your life avoiding situations because you are afraid of the outcome you will never be truly happy. Tell your friend how you feel, if he is straight he will explain to you why this cannot work, if he has invited you to partake in a threesome it leads me to believe that maybe he is a bit curious or possibly bi. Either way, I don't believe you should enter into the threesome with him because I think that it may simply be sex for them, but something so much more intimate to you... Tread Lightly but be honest!!!
Hope this helps!
DawnI have been friends with someone for a very long time and i am falling in love with them. how do i tell them?
Hi
If he has a girlfriend and isnt gay you need to put a stop to it now!!! if you have a 3sum it will make things worse and you would properly lose him as a friend altogether!! if he is straight remember he is going to want a 3sum for his g/f which means you properly wont be donig anything with him just her!! not good if you are gay!!! I think deep down you know you cannot be with him so you need to step away otherwise things will get worse i know it is hard because he is your friend and you feel you can talk to him but i dont think you should take it any further
If he is a friend and you want to keep him as such, DO NOT enter a 3 some. You should just tell him no and explain why. Worst he can do is say he doesn't feel the same, then if he dumps you as a friend, he never really was.
Any relationship should always be based on open, honest, direct communication, as you always know where you stand, and it saves misunderstandings.
If you a guy you probably don't have much of a chance, unless he comes out of the closet.
As to your last remark, one word: WTF
I have been friends with someone for a long time, and now this person doesnt want to speak to me anymore?
something insignificant has happened, i feel like someone I cared for has died! I always thought we could sort anything out! it has such an impact on who you think you are, when someone close to you does that. how do I deal with this? I have been friends with someone for a long time, and now this person doesnt want to speak to me anymore?
this question is far from easy to answer for me, in this case you know, you still need keep your self happy if he really don't want to be freind with you anymore.
good luck!I have been friends with someone for a long time, and now this person doesnt want to speak to me anymore?
Dont deal with it. Just phase it out. Because at this point you can't change the results. Give it a time and eventually, that friend will crawl back to your feet begging for forgiveness. Just dont show you are bothered by this, do not blog it either.
if it was so insignificant as you say...maybe it was the last straw or somthing like that. you should have a talk and tell them why 'you' feel it was so insignificant and let them explain why they are so hurt by it.
i think you and your friend just need time apart and then you'll know whether you missed eachother or not. So spend a couple of days - maybe a week without eachother, and see how you feel. Good Luck!
may be you hurt him(or her)??
Perhabs it's a reason ???
give him a time
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this question is far from easy to answer for me, in this case you know, you still need keep your self happy if he really don't want to be freind with you anymore.
good luck!I have been friends with someone for a long time, and now this person doesnt want to speak to me anymore?
Dont deal with it. Just phase it out. Because at this point you can't change the results. Give it a time and eventually, that friend will crawl back to your feet begging for forgiveness. Just dont show you are bothered by this, do not blog it either.
if it was so insignificant as you say...maybe it was the last straw or somthing like that. you should have a talk and tell them why 'you' feel it was so insignificant and let them explain why they are so hurt by it.
i think you and your friend just need time apart and then you'll know whether you missed eachother or not. So spend a couple of days - maybe a week without eachother, and see how you feel. Good Luck!
may be you hurt him(or her)??
Perhabs it's a reason ???
give him a time
all will be all right, sure)))))))))))))))))))))))
HELP~ how do you make friends with someone who is avoiding you in a way?
theres this guy in my class, i just met him by playing a game in class, he seems very friendly in the first convo, but after, i try to make friends with him, but he seems to be avoiding me by getting away from me when i walk in his direction, and he avoids approaching me, and i'm the one who always aproach him.
so what could this mean?
he doesn't like me or what?HELP~ how do you make friends with someone who is avoiding you in a way?
Maybe it's just too fast for him. Just nod to him from a distance and see how he reacts to that. If he still seems to avoid you then yeah maybe he does not want to be friends but hey it's his loss.
If he does not seem to mind you nodding hello to him well keep on doing it until eventually you can say a hi and ideally let him come to you and let him say hello when he is ready.HELP~ how do you make friends with someone who is avoiding you in a way?
It seems like, he is avoiding you. For reason, unknown. Forget him.
Who the hell is this guy anyway.
Make friends with someone else other than him
Trust me just give him a little time and then he will be starting conversations with you. I mean you just met him so don't get too friendly. He'll be back in no time.
so what could this mean?
he doesn't like me or what?HELP~ how do you make friends with someone who is avoiding you in a way?
Maybe it's just too fast for him. Just nod to him from a distance and see how he reacts to that. If he still seems to avoid you then yeah maybe he does not want to be friends but hey it's his loss.
If he does not seem to mind you nodding hello to him well keep on doing it until eventually you can say a hi and ideally let him come to you and let him say hello when he is ready.HELP~ how do you make friends with someone who is avoiding you in a way?
It seems like, he is avoiding you. For reason, unknown. Forget him.
Who the hell is this guy anyway.
Make friends with someone else other than him
Trust me just give him a little time and then he will be starting conversations with you. I mean you just met him so don't get too friendly. He'll be back in no time.
How do i stop being friends with someone?
There is a girl named alana.(weird name) but i really think she is annoying and i told her off all the time. she sent me down to discipline because of it! i was really mad i told her off and a day l8ter she wanted to be friends and she was like awww i no u didnt mean it! i was so ticked off!How do i stop being friends with someone?
Just ignore her everytime you see her. Also, stop going to places where you think she'll be. Then, she'll think that you might have met some other friends and decided not to be friends with her afterall. It'll probably work! Good luck! Hope I helped!How do i stop being friends with someone?
slowly cut contact with her or do something mean back to her so she won't like you. anyway, u won't need these kind of people to even like you in the first place. :) good luck.
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Tell her to go kick rocks cause u don't want to be her friend. U don't have to be her friend.
What? If you don't like her then don't be her friend... there's no science behind it. Just don't talk to her. She will take the hint if she's normal.
Sa to her that you can't be her friend anymore
just ignore her and avoid her
Just ignore her everytime you see her. Also, stop going to places where you think she'll be. Then, she'll think that you might have met some other friends and decided not to be friends with her afterall. It'll probably work! Good luck! Hope I helped!How do i stop being friends with someone?
slowly cut contact with her or do something mean back to her so she won't like you. anyway, u won't need these kind of people to even like you in the first place. :) good luck.
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Tell her to go kick rocks cause u don't want to be her friend. U don't have to be her friend.
What? If you don't like her then don't be her friend... there's no science behind it. Just don't talk to her. She will take the hint if she's normal.
Sa to her that you can't be her friend anymore
just ignore her and avoid her
What do you do if you don't want to be friends with someone but they still think you are their friends?
i have this friend and he thinks he is my best friend and i just think he is annoying! how do i get rid of him?What do you do if you don't want to be friends with someone but they still think you are their friends?
tell him that you don't like him maybe he understands, and if he doesn't just ignore him when he comes up to you and talk just ignore him!What do you do if you don't want to be friends with someone but they still think you are their friends?
well 1st off u shud tell him so dat he wud no nd if he keeps tlkin 2 u then you need to call tha cops!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao dnt do tha last thin lol mayb he will understand dat u nd him wasnt meant 2 b friends anymore...... i guess
tell him that you don't like him maybe he understands, and if he doesn't just ignore him when he comes up to you and talk just ignore him!What do you do if you don't want to be friends with someone but they still think you are their friends?
well 1st off u shud tell him so dat he wud no nd if he keeps tlkin 2 u then you need to call tha cops!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lmao dnt do tha last thin lol mayb he will understand dat u nd him wasnt meant 2 b friends anymore...... i guess
What To Do? If you dated someone for a year......?
I dated a guy for a year and he broke up with me to date someone else, we have stayed friends the whole time (3 years now) mostly because he loves my son. Now he is single, I'm single and I have loved him for 3 years but i don't know if we are going to end up back in a relationship or not and it's making me nuts not knowing. He is great with my son 3 and daughter 5 months but everythime we hang out it's different between us. sometimes we are coupleish other times just friends! Someone Help Me, Plaease Give Me You Opinion On How To Handel This!What To Do? If you dated someone for a year......?
I think you're going to have to let this guy call the shots unfortunately. The person who did the breaking up is the person who really has to decide whether or not they see something they didn't see before or just want to give it another try. If you really want to be with him then you might want to bring the subject up in a serious way and let him know that no matter what he says or feels it doesn't have to change anything between you. You could just say something like ';You know we've been friends so long and really still get along so well, I've thought about whether we should try again. What do you think?'; If he says he's not interested then just back off and continue the friendship. It's more important to keep that in tact especially since you have been friends this long.What To Do? If you dated someone for a year......?
dont, he dumped you for someone else before, he will do it again
sit him down and see if you can get him to give you some answers you have waited long enough for him to make a move and if he doesnt then move on...
i wouldn't rush back into a relationship though y'all seem like y'all love each other... continue being friends and let nature takes it course... if it was meant to be it will... don't let your love or your children be the reason to get back together.. you both must want the same thing for thing s to work... how do you know he doesn't still have feelings for the other woman still?
throw a rock and see if it throws one back at ya
You said it yourself...............friends because he loves your son....................really he did break up with you to date someone else............Let him go........if he cares he will come back and you and him will be more then friends...........................
What I would do is tell him how you feel about everything and let him know that you have feelings for him. See if this works and if it doesn't keep comunicating with him as a friend and give him hints that you love him.
I think you're going to have to let this guy call the shots unfortunately. The person who did the breaking up is the person who really has to decide whether or not they see something they didn't see before or just want to give it another try. If you really want to be with him then you might want to bring the subject up in a serious way and let him know that no matter what he says or feels it doesn't have to change anything between you. You could just say something like ';You know we've been friends so long and really still get along so well, I've thought about whether we should try again. What do you think?'; If he says he's not interested then just back off and continue the friendship. It's more important to keep that in tact especially since you have been friends this long.What To Do? If you dated someone for a year......?
dont, he dumped you for someone else before, he will do it again
sit him down and see if you can get him to give you some answers you have waited long enough for him to make a move and if he doesnt then move on...
i wouldn't rush back into a relationship though y'all seem like y'all love each other... continue being friends and let nature takes it course... if it was meant to be it will... don't let your love or your children be the reason to get back together.. you both must want the same thing for thing s to work... how do you know he doesn't still have feelings for the other woman still?
throw a rock and see if it throws one back at ya
You said it yourself...............friends because he loves your son....................really he did break up with you to date someone else............Let him go........if he cares he will come back and you and him will be more then friends...........................
What I would do is tell him how you feel about everything and let him know that you have feelings for him. See if this works and if it doesn't keep comunicating with him as a friend and give him hints that you love him.
Can you become friends with someone who told you they like you?
Okay so I'm in high school. and my best guy friend who has been my best friend since we were lik 7 or 8 like almost a year ago told me that he was in love with me and i told him that i only liked him as a friend and since then he either ignores me stays away from me or is mean to me. I cant take it anymore we were awesome friends and i really just want things to go back to the way they were. how can i do this? is it even possible?Can you become friends with someone who told you they like you?
Of Course!
Why Not.Can you become friends with someone who told you they like you?
Well you can but I don't know if it's right cause if that guy likes you and you don't then it can cause problems cause he has feelings and you don't ya know? But then it can be a good thing maybe you could fall for him and see that he is truly amazing =)
like talk too him . and why you being like this.
tell me him ; aren't we friend because i reject you.
me rejecting you doesn't mean we cant still be friends.
why is this small mistake going to break our friendship. i didn't mean to hurt you or anything . i am just saying what my heart is telling me. aren't we friends because i embarrass you?
that what i would say.
sit down with him and talk to him about the way you feel and tell him that you really want to still be friends if he's your friend then i'm sure he'll understand
it's hard for a guy to say something like that and get rejected so be gentle
tough situation
yes it is. that happened to me. we remained friends. just explain to him that it would be really crappy to lose him as a friend. and if he is 'in love' with you like he says he is then he will understand.
okay, well this is sorta different, but: okay, well i knew this kid since we were in second and third grade (im younger) and he RLLY liked my bf (haha, we were young!) and when we were in 4th grade he asked my friend to go out, but she said no (lol! lil kids) but he still always had a crush on her. then, that same year he asked ME to go out with him. and i had always been crushing on him (and damn! he knew it!) lol. so i said to him: ';ya, but i though u liked nina'; (my bf). he said: ';well, i like u even more....if you like me'; so i said ';i do'; and he said: ';okay.'; so then a couple days l8r we werent sure if we were going out or not (we were in 4th and 5th grade!). and i asked him if we were. he said : ';um...idk. give me time 2 think bout it'; basically we never went out, but we were still friends. now im in middle skool and if we c each other we will say ';hi';, but he ignors me sometimes. i think its cuz hes embarassed. cuz im younger. idk. but my point is.....sometimes ppls feelings r hurt and they ignor you or something. and i always felt like i wuz this kids 2nd pick (cuz my friend turned him down). so ya. lol. idk. maybe he is still hurt or he moved on or something. try 2 tlk to him. hope this helps. lol. idk. byye :)
Of Course!
Why Not.Can you become friends with someone who told you they like you?
Well you can but I don't know if it's right cause if that guy likes you and you don't then it can cause problems cause he has feelings and you don't ya know? But then it can be a good thing maybe you could fall for him and see that he is truly amazing =)
like talk too him . and why you being like this.
tell me him ; aren't we friend because i reject you.
me rejecting you doesn't mean we cant still be friends.
why is this small mistake going to break our friendship. i didn't mean to hurt you or anything . i am just saying what my heart is telling me. aren't we friends because i embarrass you?
that what i would say.
sit down with him and talk to him about the way you feel and tell him that you really want to still be friends if he's your friend then i'm sure he'll understand
it's hard for a guy to say something like that and get rejected so be gentle
tough situation
yes it is. that happened to me. we remained friends. just explain to him that it would be really crappy to lose him as a friend. and if he is 'in love' with you like he says he is then he will understand.
okay, well this is sorta different, but: okay, well i knew this kid since we were in second and third grade (im younger) and he RLLY liked my bf (haha, we were young!) and when we were in 4th grade he asked my friend to go out, but she said no (lol! lil kids) but he still always had a crush on her. then, that same year he asked ME to go out with him. and i had always been crushing on him (and damn! he knew it!) lol. so i said to him: ';ya, but i though u liked nina'; (my bf). he said: ';well, i like u even more....if you like me'; so i said ';i do'; and he said: ';okay.'; so then a couple days l8r we werent sure if we were going out or not (we were in 4th and 5th grade!). and i asked him if we were. he said : ';um...idk. give me time 2 think bout it'; basically we never went out, but we were still friends. now im in middle skool and if we c each other we will say ';hi';, but he ignors me sometimes. i think its cuz hes embarassed. cuz im younger. idk. but my point is.....sometimes ppls feelings r hurt and they ignor you or something. and i always felt like i wuz this kids 2nd pick (cuz my friend turned him down). so ya. lol. idk. maybe he is still hurt or he moved on or something. try 2 tlk to him. hope this helps. lol. idk. byye :)
How do i become closer friends with someone?
I've hung out a couple of times with my husbands best friend's girl friend but we're not as close as i would like to be.I really like her as a friend but i don't want to bug her by calling or text her too much.what could i do too start hanging out with her more?I really don't have friends and just need someone to talk to go shopping etc. (all the girlie things my husband wont do with me).How do i become closer friends with someone?
Well for starters go out on a couples date then see if your husband and his buddy are doing things over the weekend or sometimes during the evening which his buddies girl friend might not like and see if she wants to go to the mall or come over and get to know each other then just try to make some type of girls night plans and let the guys have their nights. I hope this helps. Also if you are doing any type of home decorating or planning a party ask her for some info or help.How do i become closer friends with someone?
email her, text her if you;d like.
you never know, she may be waiting for you to call her up t have some girl time.
send one or the other and go from there. nothing happens unless you try.
good luck!
You can start talking about things, like make as much conversation as you can.
Find your own friends , not his friends girl friends or wife. It's a trap for real. Your world is getting smaller stand back and see it
Tell her exactly that! she will understand. I'm sure she probably wants to be friends, too!c++ wedding hair styles
Well for starters go out on a couples date then see if your husband and his buddy are doing things over the weekend or sometimes during the evening which his buddies girl friend might not like and see if she wants to go to the mall or come over and get to know each other then just try to make some type of girls night plans and let the guys have their nights. I hope this helps. Also if you are doing any type of home decorating or planning a party ask her for some info or help.How do i become closer friends with someone?
email her, text her if you;d like.
you never know, she may be waiting for you to call her up t have some girl time.
send one or the other and go from there. nothing happens unless you try.
good luck!
You can start talking about things, like make as much conversation as you can.
Find your own friends , not his friends girl friends or wife. It's a trap for real. Your world is getting smaller stand back and see it
Tell her exactly that! she will understand. I'm sure she probably wants to be friends, too!
I need a friend - someone who has gone through the same as me with money issues, hiding debt to husband.?
I don't want judged. I have never I repeat never been so sick to my stomach, ashamed, embarrassed, you name it. I don't know how it happened, just seems like bills got so behind, ran up credit card debt, and etc.. and had to finally come clean with husband. I need someone who is in the same situation to talk to. I don't think I can make it..... I am having a hard time... Please someone come to my rescue.I need a friend - someone who has gone through the same as me with money issues, hiding debt to husband.?
I did the same thing and it almost cost me my marriage. This is a hard place to be in. email me.
swizmd@yahoo.comI need a friend - someone who has gone through the same as me with money issues, hiding debt to husband.?
I havent hidden my debt, but I have experience with debt, and I'm pretty sure my husband is hiding debt from me.
I am a good listener and I like to help people find a way through. I am open minded, I like to see the potential in people rather than their failings.
Money isnt everything, and yet it can control us. If you'd like to talk to me, please send me a message.
I have been in that situation and had to create a plan of clearing our debt with my husband. Yall are a team and as long as you support each other, there is a way. Things are very stressful right now for a lot of people and I personally know how this feels and how you feel right now so believe me when I say, things will get better, be very happy that you have a friend/husband to help you out.
yeah it was a start to come clean with your husband....then you need to figure out what you two can do together to get rid of the debt....(what bills to cut) cut up the credit cards....check your spending on what you buy and what you actually NEED to survive....being depressed about it will only make it worse...you need a plan to get back on top and the plus side is that it will only make your marriage stronger if you work together...then dont let it happen again..seriously go over your spending, and decide what you can take back to the store, and what you dont need to buy is important. For a few months start with only the basics....food, (you have water in your home), what your kids need if they need something, rent and utilities, Gas and insurances. Outside of that you dont need much else....then look at what you buy extra Is it clothes, furniture gadgets, shoes, soda, 4 dollar chips, alcohol, resturant...you must throw all of that out...then your debt will be cut in half....what you have extra you save 30 procent and apply the rest towards the PRINCIPLE of the debt...remember when you pay debt the bank soes not tell you you pay the interest first then the actual balance....so pay towards the principle and keep your payments the same......should be debt free in about six months....buying comes on an impulse. What Else you need to talk about? I have been through rough times too and can help....its 100 procent better and debt free now...
It's a good start you came clean with your husband. There was no way out of this without doing that.
You two haven't been working together and your husband should be willing to accept his responsibility for that as much as you. You can't be on your own shouldering the burden of all this stuff ever again.
While it's never o.k. to deceive, hide and lie to one another, it's not fair for one spouse to push big life stuff off on the other, either. It sounds like that may have been what your husband was doing.
It probably wouldn't hurt to get some marriage counseling.
So long as you and your husband are working together this will pass and you will be left with a financially and emotionally stronger marriage.
For that to happen, you and your husband have to look in one another's eyes and swear to one another to never again have either of you on your own with this stuff.
That means at the start of each month you two need to sit down and write down your income for the upcoming month and subtract your expenses. Start with necessities like groceries, shelter, utilities, transportation. That means no restaurants, movies or luxuries until the mess is cleaned up. Any money left over should be applied to your debts. It's the dreaded B-word... a budget.
It will never work until both of you have complete buy in and share in this process.
It will be tough at first but be prepared for an awesome marriage the more you work on it.
You two should do this every month for the rest of your lives.
Take the hurt and use it to build powerful change in your marriage and life. You can do it.
I did the same thing and it almost cost me my marriage. This is a hard place to be in. email me.
swizmd@yahoo.comI need a friend - someone who has gone through the same as me with money issues, hiding debt to husband.?
I havent hidden my debt, but I have experience with debt, and I'm pretty sure my husband is hiding debt from me.
I am a good listener and I like to help people find a way through. I am open minded, I like to see the potential in people rather than their failings.
Money isnt everything, and yet it can control us. If you'd like to talk to me, please send me a message.
I have been in that situation and had to create a plan of clearing our debt with my husband. Yall are a team and as long as you support each other, there is a way. Things are very stressful right now for a lot of people and I personally know how this feels and how you feel right now so believe me when I say, things will get better, be very happy that you have a friend/husband to help you out.
yeah it was a start to come clean with your husband....then you need to figure out what you two can do together to get rid of the debt....(what bills to cut) cut up the credit cards....check your spending on what you buy and what you actually NEED to survive....being depressed about it will only make it worse...you need a plan to get back on top and the plus side is that it will only make your marriage stronger if you work together...then dont let it happen again..seriously go over your spending, and decide what you can take back to the store, and what you dont need to buy is important. For a few months start with only the basics....food, (you have water in your home), what your kids need if they need something, rent and utilities, Gas and insurances. Outside of that you dont need much else....then look at what you buy extra Is it clothes, furniture gadgets, shoes, soda, 4 dollar chips, alcohol, resturant...you must throw all of that out...then your debt will be cut in half....what you have extra you save 30 procent and apply the rest towards the PRINCIPLE of the debt...remember when you pay debt the bank soes not tell you you pay the interest first then the actual balance....so pay towards the principle and keep your payments the same......should be debt free in about six months....buying comes on an impulse. What Else you need to talk about? I have been through rough times too and can help....its 100 procent better and debt free now...
It's a good start you came clean with your husband. There was no way out of this without doing that.
You two haven't been working together and your husband should be willing to accept his responsibility for that as much as you. You can't be on your own shouldering the burden of all this stuff ever again.
While it's never o.k. to deceive, hide and lie to one another, it's not fair for one spouse to push big life stuff off on the other, either. It sounds like that may have been what your husband was doing.
It probably wouldn't hurt to get some marriage counseling.
So long as you and your husband are working together this will pass and you will be left with a financially and emotionally stronger marriage.
For that to happen, you and your husband have to look in one another's eyes and swear to one another to never again have either of you on your own with this stuff.
That means at the start of each month you two need to sit down and write down your income for the upcoming month and subtract your expenses. Start with necessities like groceries, shelter, utilities, transportation. That means no restaurants, movies or luxuries until the mess is cleaned up. Any money left over should be applied to your debts. It's the dreaded B-word... a budget.
It will never work until both of you have complete buy in and share in this process.
It will be tough at first but be prepared for an awesome marriage the more you work on it.
You two should do this every month for the rest of your lives.
Take the hurt and use it to build powerful change in your marriage and life. You can do it.
Would you be able to stay friends with someone who's in love with you?
And if you are in relationship with someone, especially, could you bare being JUST STRICTLY friends with someone else who you know is in love with you and has been for years? And how would it come between your relationship if you can be their friends?
And if you are in love with someone who's in a relationship - why? Do you hope that someday they'll end they're relationship and be with you?
Looking for some feedback on this topic. Thanks!Would you be able to stay friends with someone who's in love with you?
Well, I sort of do have a friend who is in love with me. It made me really uncomfortable to be around him after that, so I started to avoid him.
Not the most courageous thing, but I am not the most courageous person on earth.Would you be able to stay friends with someone who's in love with you?
Sure (plain and simple) sure
And if you are in love with someone who's in a relationship - why? Do you hope that someday they'll end they're relationship and be with you?
Looking for some feedback on this topic. Thanks!Would you be able to stay friends with someone who's in love with you?
Well, I sort of do have a friend who is in love with me. It made me really uncomfortable to be around him after that, so I started to avoid him.
Not the most courageous thing, but I am not the most courageous person on earth.Would you be able to stay friends with someone who's in love with you?
Sure (plain and simple) sure
What makes you want to be friends with someone?
Like what makes you think ';Wow he/she is cool, he/she could be a great friend!';
Okay,well not necessarily those exact thoughts.. but you know what I mean.
Personality? Their apperance? Possibly even their race? Their intelligence?
Please be honest, I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Btw.. I'm asking this because I'll be attending a new school (freshman) in September and I just want to know how to be more social to make friends easily. Got tips?
=) thxWhat makes you want to be friends with someone?
umm, most definitely their sense of humor.
then if they are nice to others.
outgoing and crazy is nice.
but most importantly, if they aren't conceited and have a huge ego then that makes them friend worthy.
and as long as they don't say stupid things like my ex-friend when she said ';i wanna be a cheerleader, it's like buying your popularity'; that was the end of our friendship right there. not to mention when she made the squad no one else became aware of her existence that didn't know her beforehand, except the other girls on the squad, who all hated her and loser guys that went after her,simply because they wanted to be with a cheerleader.What makes you want to be friends with someone?
Definitely their personality, yes their brains, but NOT their appearance, and not race.
I am a pretty Latina and where I come from that means sl*t.
I am NOT a sl*t so I don't judges others on anything but personality, how kind hearted they are, and how ';quick'; they are. I have no patience for bimbos.
Well, for me, because I play guitar, I usually become friends with other guitarists or musicians because I already know we have one thing in common. When you have something in common with someone that is noticiable ( like being a musician, loveing sports..) it makes it a lot easier to go and be-friend them because you have something to talk about.
The way they dress the way they carry themselves and their personality and im black and i feel more comfortable with people within my race but it wouldnt really matter and it doesnt matter if their really smart or stupid and i preferrably dont like them smart because some smart kids are stuckup and just think about projects and stuff and im going to be a freshman too
Quiet, intelligent, nice, and mature.
I can't stand loud, stupid, and immature people... so I guess it's personality and intelligence. As for tips, I have none. I'm awful when it comes to people lol.
interesting question *star*
but yeah i usually make friends with the ';pretty girls';. ill just go up to them and start talking to them and we'll become friends. or people that just look interesting. ill actually start talk to anybody because im nice like that =)
umm as long as they can make me laugh and i can talk to them. also smartness helps :) but not that muchh.
%26amp;%26amp; like who goes to school with me and are in the same clubs as me helps ;]
If they seem funny, nice and maybe we have a few things in common then we usually get along really well and become friends.
As long as you are friendly, and act nice, or even say ';Hey, whats up I'm ___________';. Those will all make people want to be friends with you.
my best friends are ppl who i met that share interests there hilarious and i have a great time with them
so just be yourself
humor, crazy, talkative.
i get to know them at first .
If they seem to be a good person to talk to then i start getting to be there friend.
Okay,well not necessarily those exact thoughts.. but you know what I mean.
Personality? Their apperance? Possibly even their race? Their intelligence?
Please be honest, I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Btw.. I'm asking this because I'll be attending a new school (freshman) in September and I just want to know how to be more social to make friends easily. Got tips?
=) thxWhat makes you want to be friends with someone?
umm, most definitely their sense of humor.
then if they are nice to others.
outgoing and crazy is nice.
but most importantly, if they aren't conceited and have a huge ego then that makes them friend worthy.
and as long as they don't say stupid things like my ex-friend when she said ';i wanna be a cheerleader, it's like buying your popularity'; that was the end of our friendship right there. not to mention when she made the squad no one else became aware of her existence that didn't know her beforehand, except the other girls on the squad, who all hated her and loser guys that went after her,simply because they wanted to be with a cheerleader.What makes you want to be friends with someone?
Definitely their personality, yes their brains, but NOT their appearance, and not race.
I am a pretty Latina and where I come from that means sl*t.
I am NOT a sl*t so I don't judges others on anything but personality, how kind hearted they are, and how ';quick'; they are. I have no patience for bimbos.
Well, for me, because I play guitar, I usually become friends with other guitarists or musicians because I already know we have one thing in common. When you have something in common with someone that is noticiable ( like being a musician, loveing sports..) it makes it a lot easier to go and be-friend them because you have something to talk about.
The way they dress the way they carry themselves and their personality and im black and i feel more comfortable with people within my race but it wouldnt really matter and it doesnt matter if their really smart or stupid and i preferrably dont like them smart because some smart kids are stuckup and just think about projects and stuff and im going to be a freshman too
Quiet, intelligent, nice, and mature.
I can't stand loud, stupid, and immature people... so I guess it's personality and intelligence. As for tips, I have none. I'm awful when it comes to people lol.
interesting question *star*
but yeah i usually make friends with the ';pretty girls';. ill just go up to them and start talking to them and we'll become friends. or people that just look interesting. ill actually start talk to anybody because im nice like that =)
umm as long as they can make me laugh and i can talk to them. also smartness helps :) but not that muchh.
%26amp;%26amp; like who goes to school with me and are in the same clubs as me helps ;]
If they seem funny, nice and maybe we have a few things in common then we usually get along really well and become friends.
As long as you are friendly, and act nice, or even say ';Hey, whats up I'm ___________';. Those will all make people want to be friends with you.
my best friends are ppl who i met that share interests there hilarious and i have a great time with them
so just be yourself
humor, crazy, talkative.
i get to know them at first .
If they seem to be a good person to talk to then i start getting to be there friend.
How do you stay friends with someone who only sees things their way?
I have this friend and she thinks she's always right. When we have conversations her opinion is always right, and mine is always wrong. So how do you remain friends with someone who only sees things their way and never wants you to express your feelings and/or thoughts? It's like everything you say, is never right. Is that a REAL friend?How do you stay friends with someone who only sees things their way?
I have a friend who is they same way and it really gets annoying at times. Me personally have know her for like 10 yrs so i do consider her as a friend still but when I see that a situation is going no where because she refuses to listen to anybody else I just leave it alone and let her make her own mistakes or think whatever she wants.How do you stay friends with someone who only sees things their way?
It's more of a master-slave relationship. I would distance myself; but if you want to be friends with her anyway, just pretend she's right. Don't get into pointless arguments.
I have a friend who is they same way and it really gets annoying at times. Me personally have know her for like 10 yrs so i do consider her as a friend still but when I see that a situation is going no where because she refuses to listen to anybody else I just leave it alone and let her make her own mistakes or think whatever she wants.How do you stay friends with someone who only sees things their way?
It's more of a master-slave relationship. I would distance myself; but if you want to be friends with her anyway, just pretend she's right. Don't get into pointless arguments.
How to just be friends with someone I'm attracted to?
If you friend knows him ask him/her intraduce you to him! it worked for me!
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http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>How to just be friends with someone I'm attracted to?
fist try to get there attention then ask to be there friendHow to just be friends with someone I'm attracted to?
dont know but gd luck
Simple, don't get into the things that lead to love or bring on the love at an ever so slow pace.
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http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>How to just be friends with someone I'm attracted to?
fist try to get there attention then ask to be there friendHow to just be friends with someone I'm attracted to?
dont know but gd luck
Simple, don't get into the things that lead to love or bring on the love at an ever so slow pace.
How long should someone be friends with someone before they can be more?
I have known a guy for about 3 months and i'm starting to like him alot but i don't want to just rush into a relationship without having a friendship to back us up. However, the last thing I want is friends with benefits because that usually doesn't work out well.
My question is basically: how long should someone be friends before they can become something more?
PLEASE no snide or crude answers! Thanks %26amp; sorry if it's in the wrong category! :-\How long should someone be friends with someone before they can be more?
I think that you can meet someone and move right on into a relationship on the first day. There's really not a formula for it.
The best thing to do is let things continue to progress as they are right now. You need to continue to get a feel for who he really is to see if your feelings continue to grow for him romantically. Go on a couple of ';dates.'; They don't have to be called that and there doesn't have to be any expectations. Just go out as friends and continue to evaluate if you want more from the relationship.c++ wedding hair styles
My question is basically: how long should someone be friends before they can become something more?
PLEASE no snide or crude answers! Thanks %26amp; sorry if it's in the wrong category! :-\How long should someone be friends with someone before they can be more?
I think that you can meet someone and move right on into a relationship on the first day. There's really not a formula for it.
The best thing to do is let things continue to progress as they are right now. You need to continue to get a feel for who he really is to see if your feelings continue to grow for him romantically. Go on a couple of ';dates.'; They don't have to be called that and there doesn't have to be any expectations. Just go out as friends and continue to evaluate if you want more from the relationship.
I have been friends with someone for 13 years, a remarkable personality that I would want to spend the rest of?
my life with but i discovered a dark secret that he has another personality! He has a male lover! He has no idea I knew this. He acts very becoming and highly professional with I am with him. He seems to be the man I would want to be with. I am secretly devastated and extremely hurt. How would I handle this with him or should I just l continue to keep the secret to the grave? I am in love with this man. Please help!I have been friends with someone for 13 years, a remarkable personality that I would want to spend the rest of?
LOLI have been friends with someone for 13 years, a remarkable personality that I would want to spend the rest of?
Ugghhh.
That means he is putting things in the wrong places.
Can you share like that?
You have to tell him you know......talk to each other for your sake please
so are you saying he is gay?
well this has happened to me before and wow my stomach sunk.
you may be in love yes :(
LOLI have been friends with someone for 13 years, a remarkable personality that I would want to spend the rest of?
Ugghhh.
That means he is putting things in the wrong places.
Can you share like that?
You have to tell him you know......talk to each other for your sake please
so are you saying he is gay?
well this has happened to me before and wow my stomach sunk.
you may be in love yes :(
How do you prevent one of your facebook friend's postings from appearing on your Status updates homepage?
One of my FB friends, someone I haven't seen since HS and did not know that well to begin with, is constantly posting status updates which I do not wish to view. I do not want to delete her as a friend, but I do not want to view her status updates. Is there a way I can disable her status updates from appearing on my page without deleting her as a friend?How do you prevent one of your facebook friend's postings from appearing on your Status updates homepage?
If you put your mouse over one of the status or something else she posts, the word ';hide'; will appear on the right of the status, click on it and then a dropdown menu will appear. Click hide ';her name';. This will clear her status but also anything else she may post such as pictures, apps, etc.
If you put your mouse over one of the status or something else she posts, the word ';hide'; will appear on the right of the status, click on it and then a dropdown menu will appear. Click hide ';her name';. This will clear her status but also anything else she may post such as pictures, apps, etc.
How to go about being friends with someone again?
so a friend of mine and i got in a little fight. I was really upset and didnt know what to do. I tried real hard to be friends again. He told me to give him space but i kinda failed at that and really annoyed him and kept trying to make things better so now i just seem annoying and psycho and i feel like he does not what to be friends again! what should i do?How to go about being friends with someone again?
just apologize :)
and let him be on his own for abit :)
then just gradually start talking too him again.
but SLOWLY. lol.
cos like you dont want him to find you annoying by you keep talking too him all the while.
he will want to be friends with you again
he'lll probably miss all your attention lol :D
goood luck (L) xHow to go about being friends with someone again?
tell your friend that you're sorry and that you really want to be friends again. Explain to him why you got upset. This way he'll be able to understand you more. This is what I did when my friend and I got into a little fight. She annoyed me again and again and I forgave her. After that I told her the reason why I got mad at her. Now everything's fine.
keep trying.or wait until he calls you.i'm having sort of the same problem.so i hope it works out for both of us..
just apologize :)
and let him be on his own for abit :)
then just gradually start talking too him again.
but SLOWLY. lol.
cos like you dont want him to find you annoying by you keep talking too him all the while.
he will want to be friends with you again
he'lll probably miss all your attention lol :D
goood luck (L) xHow to go about being friends with someone again?
tell your friend that you're sorry and that you really want to be friends again. Explain to him why you got upset. This way he'll be able to understand you more. This is what I did when my friend and I got into a little fight. She annoyed me again and again and I forgave her. After that I told her the reason why I got mad at her. Now everything's fine.
keep trying.or wait until he calls you.i'm having sort of the same problem.so i hope it works out for both of us..
Have you ever been just friends with someone you love because you are scared of commitment?
My friend and I have feelings for each other but we are taking things really really slowly. We haven't been on a date yet but we see each other all the time, mainly as I have exams.
I can imagine spending the rest of my life with him IF we actually do take the next step. The problem is that this scares me! I haven't been in a relationship before but I get the impression that as we have been friends (with tension) for a while it could start off kind of serious.
Now i'm thinking we could be better as friends and maybe I could just be free for a little longer. Wow, do I sound selfish to you? I'm really not ready for a relationship but I love him.... How does that work?
Have you ever been friends with someone you love because you are scared of commitment?Have you ever been just friends with someone you love because you are scared of commitment?
If you love someone you would be happy to commit to them...Have you ever been just friends with someone you love because you are scared of commitment?
no, if you love him then you ARE ready for a relationship, not with anyone ellse but with him. if you do love him, being in a relationship doesnt stop you from being free, trust me,(that's only if the boy is not too bossy)
just go out with him, and dont be scared of not being free
yup i loved my best friend a lot, but i wasnt sure if it was in a friends way or romantic. he was a great caring friend and excellent boyf material but i was afraid of what would happen if we were to break up. and i decided in the end id rather have him as a friend than risk ruinin what we had. in the end he could nolonger take just being my frend and we dont spk these days. i dont regret it tho
Yes and in the end it did happen and now we do not talk! I wish we never had a reletionship now as I miss talking to him and having him around for a hug and a slag off ssh. In my advice all reletionships are different and it could work.
At such a tender age, i seriously doubt you know what you want for the rest of your life .... :)
hm,
it seems too me that you first need to
ficgureout what you want.
then go from there
hope this helped you out:]
not afraid of commitment. afraid of being controlled, deceived, hurt and ignored
No! I would dive in head first!
I can imagine spending the rest of my life with him IF we actually do take the next step. The problem is that this scares me! I haven't been in a relationship before but I get the impression that as we have been friends (with tension) for a while it could start off kind of serious.
Now i'm thinking we could be better as friends and maybe I could just be free for a little longer. Wow, do I sound selfish to you? I'm really not ready for a relationship but I love him.... How does that work?
Have you ever been friends with someone you love because you are scared of commitment?Have you ever been just friends with someone you love because you are scared of commitment?
If you love someone you would be happy to commit to them...Have you ever been just friends with someone you love because you are scared of commitment?
no, if you love him then you ARE ready for a relationship, not with anyone ellse but with him. if you do love him, being in a relationship doesnt stop you from being free, trust me,(that's only if the boy is not too bossy)
just go out with him, and dont be scared of not being free
yup i loved my best friend a lot, but i wasnt sure if it was in a friends way or romantic. he was a great caring friend and excellent boyf material but i was afraid of what would happen if we were to break up. and i decided in the end id rather have him as a friend than risk ruinin what we had. in the end he could nolonger take just being my frend and we dont spk these days. i dont regret it tho
Yes and in the end it did happen and now we do not talk! I wish we never had a reletionship now as I miss talking to him and having him around for a hug and a slag off ssh. In my advice all reletionships are different and it could work.
At such a tender age, i seriously doubt you know what you want for the rest of your life .... :)
hm,
it seems too me that you first need to
ficgureout what you want.
then go from there
hope this helped you out:]
not afraid of commitment. afraid of being controlled, deceived, hurt and ignored
No! I would dive in head first!
How do you stop being friends with someone?
there's this guy sean in my school and when i first started talking to him he was nice but recently he keeps insulting me like calling me stupid and all this other really personal stuff. its really difficult because he is friends with all my friends and he like lives down the road from me. i just dunno what i can do.i don't think i can just tell him to f#ck off. help?How do you stop being friends with someone?
You ignore them.How do you stop being friends with someone?
I think everything he is doing to you, do it back to him. He'll soon get annoyed like you are getting with him. Then when he tells you to stop it or asks you why you're being like that tell him because he's doing it to you and you wanted to see how he liked it. Maybe after he's realised or experienced what it feels like he will stop being like it towards you but if not if he doesn't stop being friends with you, ignore him and try and hang around with your other friends more.
Be really cold towards him.. For example talk to all your other friends about something and when he joins in just talk over him. If he tries to talk to you on your own look away as if he is not there and then just walk away. You need to do it for a while then he will get the message and just not bother talking to you anymore.. I hope this helps :) x
I had a 'friend' like that.
I felt betrayed. This friend of mine was no stud or anything, he was kinda a geek. I sought revenge.
One of our mutual friends also a guy agreed to my plan of humiliating him.
It worked.
Later that day one of our other friends came up to me and asked me if I 'heard' what happended.
If you tell him to f*** off then it could just start a vendetta and the situation become worse.The smart thing to do is rise above it and just let it wash over you.Take no notice,let it go,he will get bored with insulting you if you do not retaliate.
heyy dnt b dat harsh in first one bt just fully try to avoid him dnt reply his talks n den also if he says anythng jst say wat so ever comes to ur mind if he goes sum over kind dnt hesitate to tell him straight forward f... off or stop sucking....deres no way of being gud to him
Just Ignore the person and he will sooner or later get the point.
if u want to be nice to him just say could u just stop i dont like when u do that pleaz
Just distance yourself from him. Try doing things with your friends where he won't be. Ignore him. He sounds like a joke.
just ignore him.that will do.seeing ur ignoring him,he will finally stop it.
Ignore Him
Don't Talk To Him
If He talks to you just be cold towards him
Just live your life
Just ignore him and say you're too busy.
just avoid him and ignore him he'll get the point.
Say you got a bf!
ignore him thats what i would do
dont talk to him and leave him alone then he will probably do the same
You ignore them.How do you stop being friends with someone?
I think everything he is doing to you, do it back to him. He'll soon get annoyed like you are getting with him. Then when he tells you to stop it or asks you why you're being like that tell him because he's doing it to you and you wanted to see how he liked it. Maybe after he's realised or experienced what it feels like he will stop being like it towards you but if not if he doesn't stop being friends with you, ignore him and try and hang around with your other friends more.
Be really cold towards him.. For example talk to all your other friends about something and when he joins in just talk over him. If he tries to talk to you on your own look away as if he is not there and then just walk away. You need to do it for a while then he will get the message and just not bother talking to you anymore.. I hope this helps :) x
I had a 'friend' like that.
I felt betrayed. This friend of mine was no stud or anything, he was kinda a geek. I sought revenge.
One of our mutual friends also a guy agreed to my plan of humiliating him.
It worked.
Later that day one of our other friends came up to me and asked me if I 'heard' what happended.
If you tell him to f*** off then it could just start a vendetta and the situation become worse.The smart thing to do is rise above it and just let it wash over you.Take no notice,let it go,he will get bored with insulting you if you do not retaliate.
heyy dnt b dat harsh in first one bt just fully try to avoid him dnt reply his talks n den also if he says anythng jst say wat so ever comes to ur mind if he goes sum over kind dnt hesitate to tell him straight forward f... off or stop sucking....deres no way of being gud to him
Just Ignore the person and he will sooner or later get the point.
if u want to be nice to him just say could u just stop i dont like when u do that pleaz
Just distance yourself from him. Try doing things with your friends where he won't be. Ignore him. He sounds like a joke.
just ignore him.that will do.seeing ur ignoring him,he will finally stop it.
Ignore Him
Don't Talk To Him
If He talks to you just be cold towards him
Just live your life
Just ignore him and say you're too busy.
just avoid him and ignore him he'll get the point.
Say you got a bf!
ignore him thats what i would do
dont talk to him and leave him alone then he will probably do the same
If you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
Ive been friends with someone for a few years now and i have feelings for her but she's with someone, now do i tell her how i feel or what. By the way I don't want to loose her in my life cause i do care for her i just need to know if i should tell her or not. (A simple yes or no will work for this)If you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
noIf you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
YES
If she is with someone, no. That would just make you both uncomfortable. Stay her friend and wait to see what happens later. Be patient.c++ wedding hair styles
noIf you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
YES
If she is with someone, no. That would just make you both uncomfortable. Stay her friend and wait to see what happens later. Be patient.
How do you ';just be friends'; with someone you are completely attracted to?
put aside your own feelings for the person, and be there when that person needs you. its tough, but if you truly care about the person, you would be able and willing to sacrifice your own happiness for theirs.
How do you stop being friends with someone?
there's this guy sean in my school and when i first started talking to him he was nice but recently he keeps insulting me like calling me stupid and all this other really personal stuff. its really difficult because he is friends with all my friends and he like lives down the road from me. i just dunno what i can do.i don't think i can just tell him to f#ck off. help?How do you stop being friends with someone?
You ignore them.How do you stop being friends with someone?
I think everything he is doing to you, do it back to him. He'll soon get annoyed like you are getting with him. Then when he tells you to stop it or asks you why you're being like that tell him because he's doing it to you and you wanted to see how he liked it. Maybe after he's realised or experienced what it feels like he will stop being like it towards you but if not if he doesn't stop being friends with you, ignore him and try and hang around with your other friends more.
Be really cold towards him.. For example talk to all your other friends about something and when he joins in just talk over him. If he tries to talk to you on your own look away as if he is not there and then just walk away. You need to do it for a while then he will get the message and just not bother talking to you anymore.. I hope this helps :) x
I had a 'friend' like that.
I felt betrayed. This friend of mine was no stud or anything, he was kinda a geek. I sought revenge.
One of our mutual friends also a guy agreed to my plan of humiliating him.
It worked.
Later that day one of our other friends came up to me and asked me if I 'heard' what happended.
If you tell him to f*** off then it could just start a vendetta and the situation become worse.The smart thing to do is rise above it and just let it wash over you.Take no notice,let it go,he will get bored with insulting you if you do not retaliate.
heyy dnt b dat harsh in first one bt just fully try to avoid him dnt reply his talks n den also if he says anythng jst say wat so ever comes to ur mind if he goes sum over kind dnt hesitate to tell him straight forward f... off or stop sucking....deres no way of being gud to him
Just Ignore the person and he will sooner or later get the point.
if u want to be nice to him just say could u just stop i dont like when u do that pleaz
Just distance yourself from him. Try doing things with your friends where he won't be. Ignore him. He sounds like a joke.
just ignore him.that will do.seeing ur ignoring him,he will finally stop it.
Ignore Him
Don't Talk To Him
If He talks to you just be cold towards him
Just live your life
Just ignore him and say you're too busy.
just avoid him and ignore him he'll get the point.
Say you got a bf!
ignore him thats what i would do
dont talk to him and leave him alone then he will probably do the same
You ignore them.How do you stop being friends with someone?
I think everything he is doing to you, do it back to him. He'll soon get annoyed like you are getting with him. Then when he tells you to stop it or asks you why you're being like that tell him because he's doing it to you and you wanted to see how he liked it. Maybe after he's realised or experienced what it feels like he will stop being like it towards you but if not if he doesn't stop being friends with you, ignore him and try and hang around with your other friends more.
Be really cold towards him.. For example talk to all your other friends about something and when he joins in just talk over him. If he tries to talk to you on your own look away as if he is not there and then just walk away. You need to do it for a while then he will get the message and just not bother talking to you anymore.. I hope this helps :) x
I had a 'friend' like that.
I felt betrayed. This friend of mine was no stud or anything, he was kinda a geek. I sought revenge.
One of our mutual friends also a guy agreed to my plan of humiliating him.
It worked.
Later that day one of our other friends came up to me and asked me if I 'heard' what happended.
If you tell him to f*** off then it could just start a vendetta and the situation become worse.The smart thing to do is rise above it and just let it wash over you.Take no notice,let it go,he will get bored with insulting you if you do not retaliate.
heyy dnt b dat harsh in first one bt just fully try to avoid him dnt reply his talks n den also if he says anythng jst say wat so ever comes to ur mind if he goes sum over kind dnt hesitate to tell him straight forward f... off or stop sucking....deres no way of being gud to him
Just Ignore the person and he will sooner or later get the point.
if u want to be nice to him just say could u just stop i dont like when u do that pleaz
Just distance yourself from him. Try doing things with your friends where he won't be. Ignore him. He sounds like a joke.
just ignore him.that will do.seeing ur ignoring him,he will finally stop it.
Ignore Him
Don't Talk To Him
If He talks to you just be cold towards him
Just live your life
Just ignore him and say you're too busy.
just avoid him and ignore him he'll get the point.
Say you got a bf!
ignore him thats what i would do
dont talk to him and leave him alone then he will probably do the same
If you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
Ive been friends with someone for a few years now and i have feelings for her but she's with someone, now do i tell her how i feel or what. By the way I don't want to loose her in my life cause i do care for her i just need to know if i should tell her or not. (A simple yes or no will work for this)If you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
YESIf you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
If she is with someone, no. That would just make you both uncomfortable. Stay her friend and wait to see what happens later. Be patient.
no
YESIf you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
If she is with someone, no. That would just make you both uncomfortable. Stay her friend and wait to see what happens later. Be patient.
no
How do you ';just be friends'; with someone you are completely attracted to?
put aside your own feelings for the person, and be there when that person needs you. its tough, but if you truly care about the person, you would be able and willing to sacrifice your own happiness for theirs.
What is true love when ur best friends with someone?
i have asked this before but i would like more answers..so plz answer?
well right now im not sure if i am with this guy or not, but once i get to talk to him i am gonna figure out if im with him or not..and i really wanna be with him or not and i truely love him tons nd tons...im just wondering wat is true love and how u know if ur in love...What is true love when ur best friends with someone?
ok one its when he is around and u get a feeling in ur stomech makes u nervouse and u cant stop thinking about them no matter what you think of their face is in ur mind u just get run over with emotions when you see them
well right now im not sure if i am with this guy or not, but once i get to talk to him i am gonna figure out if im with him or not..and i really wanna be with him or not and i truely love him tons nd tons...im just wondering wat is true love and how u know if ur in love...What is true love when ur best friends with someone?
ok one its when he is around and u get a feeling in ur stomech makes u nervouse and u cant stop thinking about them no matter what you think of their face is in ur mind u just get run over with emotions when you see them
How do i become friends with someone i see frequently in school?
i just started school and i've been looking around and ive seen some people that interest me as friends and maybe even serious relationship, what do i do to at least become friends with them?How do i become friends with someone i see frequently in school?
sit near them and start a conversation. thats how u get to know someone, and then take it from there
ask to borrow a pencil from them and stuff like that to get their attention so they no u exsistHow do i become friends with someone i see frequently in school?
Talk to them and be yourself. Don't try to impress them inventing things, if they don't accept you the way you are they're not worth it.
Talk to them at random complement them on something or see if your friends know them and could introduce you to them
Be friendly, smile a lot, and talk to them. And say their name a lot when you talk to them.
Strike up a conversation with them! Invite them to join you for an after school snack or movie!
I'd start by talking to them
Fart in their mouth
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sit near them and start a conversation. thats how u get to know someone, and then take it from there
ask to borrow a pencil from them and stuff like that to get their attention so they no u exsistHow do i become friends with someone i see frequently in school?
Talk to them and be yourself. Don't try to impress them inventing things, if they don't accept you the way you are they're not worth it.
Talk to them at random complement them on something or see if your friends know them and could introduce you to them
Be friendly, smile a lot, and talk to them. And say their name a lot when you talk to them.
Strike up a conversation with them! Invite them to join you for an after school snack or movie!
I'd start by talking to them
Fart in their mouth
http://de.youtube.com/watch?v=H8as5bBpPcY
How to become better friends with someone?
im a guy, i have this one good friend who is a girl, and i just want to become better friends than we are now. any tips?How to become better friends with someone?
Be nice and kind. Get a simple conversation going. Try doing something together (like going to the other person's house - but she might get a different idea of what you're trying to do).How to become better friends with someone?
give her advice and complameints when needed. Talk to her often and be carefull what you say you dont want to say the wrong thing and screw up ur friendship. hope i helped!!
Well, it's easy. On a normal day at school just strike up a conversation like:
Can you help me with this assignment? or Are you excited about that new event coming up?
She will respond to your question and you would keep the conversation going. Good luck.
Tell her stuff.
Telling people stuff that's going on in your personal life makes them feel like you trust them and you can talk to them. Opening up to someone will make them open up to you and you two will become better friends.
Good luck.
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Be nice and kind. Get a simple conversation going. Try doing something together (like going to the other person's house - but she might get a different idea of what you're trying to do).How to become better friends with someone?
give her advice and complameints when needed. Talk to her often and be carefull what you say you dont want to say the wrong thing and screw up ur friendship. hope i helped!!
Well, it's easy. On a normal day at school just strike up a conversation like:
Can you help me with this assignment? or Are you excited about that new event coming up?
She will respond to your question and you would keep the conversation going. Good luck.
Tell her stuff.
Telling people stuff that's going on in your personal life makes them feel like you trust them and you can talk to them. Opening up to someone will make them open up to you and you two will become better friends.
Good luck.
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How do I stop being friends with someone?
I am friends with two sisters who have toddlers near my age, and I don't have the energy to continue our friendship. Their kids are examples of what happens when you are a lazy parent. (screamers, bullying, etc) And every time they come visit we all get sick. I just feel worn out every time I meet up with them. Their family asks to borrow money from me, and I always pay for everything.
Last time I went to visit one of them their controlling husband only let her come see me for maybe a few hours out of my three day visit, and only on his terms. I took them out to dinner, and he ordered a steak dinner with crab cakes and alcohol without bothering to ask and expecting me to pay. Since then I have only talked to one of the sisters but I don't even want to deal with her anymore.
Should I just stop picking up the phone and responding to emails? I have already done this since my visit with one sister but she doesn鈥檛 seem to get the clues. Is there something nice I could say?
Thanks =)How do I stop being friends with someone?
I recently read an advice column (like Dear Abby or something) that said you should break up with friends the way you break up with a boyfriend or girlfriend. I don't know if that works though; it seems awkward to me to sit down with someone and specifically tell them ';I don't want to see you any more';. At the very least, though, you will need to be able to say ';no, I can't'; to any more requests for money. They don't need to know whether you can't afford it, or just don't want to give it to them - so don't let them press you for that kind of an answer.
However, if you still like these sisters %26amp; would like to continue some friendship with them - and just can't take the extra family members - try to arrange a regular ';girls' night out'; every month or every-other-month. That way you get to spend time with those people who are really your friends, without the screaming kids or husband(s). You might still have to foot the bill for that, unless you can convince them to chip in each time. If money's an issue you can come up with less expensive things to do, like a poker night at your house with fake money and a simple dinner the 3 of you prepare together. If that works out, it will keep you in touch with them - and give them a little occasional escape - until their kids are older and maybe more sociable.
Good luck.How do I stop being friends with someone?
sleeping with the husband should end the friendship
just tell them you dont have any money to spear, besides, your telling the truth! i mean, its your money to spend, and your money to keep, so you dont have any money to spear, and DONT answere there e-mails, and dont associate with them
Seems like you've been taken advantage of ... it happens so often to those willing to help a little .... then those you help expect it all the time ...
I think you should just distance yourself by stop responding to emails and screening your calls ... when they ask why they haven't been able to contact you ... reply you have found other intrests and are out living YOUR life not waiting around to help others live theirs
If they truly are friends they'll understand ... if they don't ... it's their loss and you can get on with your life
Good Luck
P.S. ... What are you doing next Thursday ;) ...lol
Well that really sucks.. if they like hanging out with you.. But i justt you should just stay away from them alot.
respond by explaining just like you did to us. that will take care of your whole problem, one way or the other. what are they going to do? refuse to be your friend? do you care?
just tell them that you feel used and that you dont want a part in it anymore . then ignore them and they will get the message.
Last time I went to visit one of them their controlling husband only let her come see me for maybe a few hours out of my three day visit, and only on his terms. I took them out to dinner, and he ordered a steak dinner with crab cakes and alcohol without bothering to ask and expecting me to pay. Since then I have only talked to one of the sisters but I don't even want to deal with her anymore.
Should I just stop picking up the phone and responding to emails? I have already done this since my visit with one sister but she doesn鈥檛 seem to get the clues. Is there something nice I could say?
Thanks =)How do I stop being friends with someone?
I recently read an advice column (like Dear Abby or something) that said you should break up with friends the way you break up with a boyfriend or girlfriend. I don't know if that works though; it seems awkward to me to sit down with someone and specifically tell them ';I don't want to see you any more';. At the very least, though, you will need to be able to say ';no, I can't'; to any more requests for money. They don't need to know whether you can't afford it, or just don't want to give it to them - so don't let them press you for that kind of an answer.
However, if you still like these sisters %26amp; would like to continue some friendship with them - and just can't take the extra family members - try to arrange a regular ';girls' night out'; every month or every-other-month. That way you get to spend time with those people who are really your friends, without the screaming kids or husband(s). You might still have to foot the bill for that, unless you can convince them to chip in each time. If money's an issue you can come up with less expensive things to do, like a poker night at your house with fake money and a simple dinner the 3 of you prepare together. If that works out, it will keep you in touch with them - and give them a little occasional escape - until their kids are older and maybe more sociable.
Good luck.How do I stop being friends with someone?
sleeping with the husband should end the friendship
just tell them you dont have any money to spear, besides, your telling the truth! i mean, its your money to spend, and your money to keep, so you dont have any money to spear, and DONT answere there e-mails, and dont associate with them
Seems like you've been taken advantage of ... it happens so often to those willing to help a little .... then those you help expect it all the time ...
I think you should just distance yourself by stop responding to emails and screening your calls ... when they ask why they haven't been able to contact you ... reply you have found other intrests and are out living YOUR life not waiting around to help others live theirs
If they truly are friends they'll understand ... if they don't ... it's their loss and you can get on with your life
Good Luck
P.S. ... What are you doing next Thursday ;) ...lol
Well that really sucks.. if they like hanging out with you.. But i justt you should just stay away from them alot.
respond by explaining just like you did to us. that will take care of your whole problem, one way or the other. what are they going to do? refuse to be your friend? do you care?
just tell them that you feel used and that you dont want a part in it anymore . then ignore them and they will get the message.
How is it possible to be friends with someone on Facebook, but to all of your friends they don't appear?
go to privacy and you can set the settings for who can view your friends and stuffHow is it possible to be friends with someone on Facebook, but to all of your friends they don't appear?
It isn't possible.How is it possible to be friends with someone on Facebook, but to all of your friends they don't appear?
if the person you are friends with has their privacy settings set to visible to friends only then anybody who is not a friend to them will not see them
It isn't possible.How is it possible to be friends with someone on Facebook, but to all of your friends they don't appear?
if the person you are friends with has their privacy settings set to visible to friends only then anybody who is not a friend to them will not see them
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
If you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
Ive been friends with someone for a few years now and i have feelings for her but she's with someone, now do i tell her how i feel or what. By the way I don't want to loose her in my life cause i do care for her i just need to know if i should tell her or not. (A simple yes or no will work for this)If you want to be more than just friends with someone do you say something to them or not?
Not if shes with someone. You are probably in the friend zone, and telling her how u feel will probably creep her out a bit and things just wont be the same.
Not if shes with someone. You are probably in the friend zone, and telling her how u feel will probably creep her out a bit and things just wont be the same.
How to be JUST friends with someone your in love with?
So, we've decided to cool it with the relationship part of things for a while...'til he gets his head straight. We both admit to having deep feelings for one another..and don't want to lose each other. How am I now supposed to be just his friend until things can pick up again? I'm in love with him.How to be JUST friends with someone your in love with?
why would you want to just be friends??How to be JUST friends with someone your in love with?
its hard... if you really just want to be friend you need to date someone else.c++ wedding hair styles
why would you want to just be friends??How to be JUST friends with someone your in love with?
its hard... if you really just want to be friend you need to date someone else.
How to you become friends with someone who hates you?
I was friends with her since 2nd graade. Then she got all annoying so i wasnt liking her for a week than it got out of hand ,and she hated me for a month now and i feel like she has stolen all me friends.How to you become friends with someone who hates you?
u don't need a friend like that anyway.keep trying2 b there friend will only hurt u in the end.How to you become friends with someone who hates you?
move on and make new friendz
u don't need a friend like that anyway.keep trying2 b there friend will only hurt u in the end.How to you become friends with someone who hates you?
move on and make new friendz
In my space,how can you stop being friends with someone?
I have a friend in myspace but i don't want to be his friend any more in myspace.How can i remove him from my friends?In my space,how can you stop being friends with someone?
#1 GO TO THEIR PROFILE PAGE AND CLICK ON BLOCK USER IN THEIR CONTACT BOX.
#2 GO BACK TO YOUR PAGE AND CLICK ON EDIT FRIENDS.
#3 CHECK THEIR BOX AND SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM.
#4 DELETE THEM!
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PATRICKIn my space,how can you stop being friends with someone?
Don't worry, no one really is your friend there to begin with.
go to edit friends and click delete
It is very simple, just delete the person from your friends list. That will stop all contact with them and they will no longer be able to contact you. You can also set your comment setting to be reviewed and accepted before they are posted to your space. Don't be afraid to get rid of people who bother you. They will find others to bother.
On the main MySpace page after you log in, where it says My Friend Space . . click on Edit Friends . . . This will bring up a page with your friends and their MySpace pictures . . simply select which ones you would like to delete by putting a check next to their picture . . and then click the Delete Selected button on the bottom of the page . . if you have as many friends as I do . . you may have many pages of friends to go through until you find the one you want to delete . . I hope this information has helped . .
Edit friends
Delete
#1 GO TO THEIR PROFILE PAGE AND CLICK ON BLOCK USER IN THEIR CONTACT BOX.
#2 GO BACK TO YOUR PAGE AND CLICK ON EDIT FRIENDS.
#3 CHECK THEIR BOX AND SCROLL TO THE BOTTOM.
#4 DELETE THEM!
FOR FURTHER HELP WITH MYSPACE PROBLEMS CONTACT...http://www.myspace.com/prstevens
MUCH LOVE
PATRICKIn my space,how can you stop being friends with someone?
Don't worry, no one really is your friend there to begin with.
go to edit friends and click delete
It is very simple, just delete the person from your friends list. That will stop all contact with them and they will no longer be able to contact you. You can also set your comment setting to be reviewed and accepted before they are posted to your space. Don't be afraid to get rid of people who bother you. They will find others to bother.
On the main MySpace page after you log in, where it says My Friend Space . . click on Edit Friends . . . This will bring up a page with your friends and their MySpace pictures . . simply select which ones you would like to delete by putting a check next to their picture . . and then click the Delete Selected button on the bottom of the page . . if you have as many friends as I do . . you may have many pages of friends to go through until you find the one you want to delete . . I hope this information has helped . .
Edit friends
Delete
How to make friends with someone who is always busy?
I noticed that my neighbor who sits next to me in next cubicle is always talking on phone and busy running around doing things, while my job is more sitting infront of computer doing stuff. i can hear his conversations and sometimes i put on my headphones so i can concentrate...but i want to know maybe some remarks or a method to win his friendship and respect because i'm learning alot from him and the kind of lyngo he uses on phone is fun...i told him i like it and he was kind about it. but he mentioned it is a busy day.How to make friends with someone who is always busy?
Maybe you can start a conversation with him during lunch, or breaks you can also walk with him to his car after work, or you can ask him to hang out with you during the weekend, or invite him over for dinner.BBQ.How to make friends with someone who is always busy?
he is trying to be polite but give you the brush off at the same time, don't annoy this person.
Are you gay?
Maybe you can start a conversation with him during lunch, or breaks you can also walk with him to his car after work, or you can ask him to hang out with you during the weekend, or invite him over for dinner.BBQ.How to make friends with someone who is always busy?
he is trying to be polite but give you the brush off at the same time, don't annoy this person.
Are you gay?
How do you stay ';just friends'; with someone after you were intimate and you want them more than a friend?
I'm not sure if our first intimacy encounter was just a sexual one night make out session or the possibility of a romance. So, I stopped so it wouldn't be a one night thing and said that we probably shouldn't risk our friendship. Now, I want to know what could be going through his head???? How do you stay ';just friends'; with someone after you were intimate and you want them more than a friend?
Watch his body language when he is around you. Listen for any subtle remarks he may make about that one night. It may point an arrow at what he's driving at between you and him.
Or simply ask him.
Watch his body language when he is around you. Listen for any subtle remarks he may make about that one night. It may point an arrow at what he's driving at between you and him.
Or simply ask him.
How to make friends with someone who's nervous?
ok so im in high school and im a guy. theres a new guy in my english class who is new and he never talks. he has no friends and walks around the school and around the class early. i feel sorry for him and i want to be his friend or just talk to him. what do i doHow to make friends with someone who's nervous?
Your a great person man
Umm I think you should ask him one day if he needs help or if the is something wrong if you see him somewhat struggling or confused. I do that frequently just for people to feel comfortable around me. Its okay to talk to him
Good luck and you have my best wishes
Your a great person man
Umm I think you should ask him one day if he needs help or if the is something wrong if you see him somewhat struggling or confused. I do that frequently just for people to feel comfortable around me. Its okay to talk to him
Good luck and you have my best wishes
How do you make friends with someone new?
Im going to college and i want to have an average social life.
but i want to know. How do you, personally, make friends with someone new?
what do you say, how often to talk to them, how to act... etc. Any tips like that would be great. :)How do you make friends with someone new?
Just appproach a student in your class or maybe even your dorm hall and introduce yourself, ask what they think about the school/ class, etc. Its easier to make friends when you dont think about. Trust me friends turn up in the most randomest situations and places. Good Luck! :)How do you make friends with someone new?
Well, this isnt kindergarten, so clearly you cant ask to play tag with someone. :P Well, a good way to ';make friends'; Is pertend to not have a pencil or pen on you, and ask someone around you that you wanna be friends with. Or ask people for directions on where classes are, and then be like, sorry whats your name? then you say ok, thanks ____ See you around! You`ll find your friends in college.
Hope everything goes well!
- Serena B.
lol well me and this girl named breana r now very good friends. She was the new girl in school. I showed her around 2 her classez and we bcame so close after that lol just b nice good luck gettin ur friend
If you're boarding in one of the residence halls, it's really easy. Strike upa conversation with some in the food line. Go to functions there. Join one of the student associations. Volunteer your time. Pledge to a fraternity/sorority (at least go to some rush functions). Talk to people win your classes. There are innumerable other ways. If you got to church , synagogue, or mosque, strike up acquaintences. there.c++ wedding hair styles
but i want to know. How do you, personally, make friends with someone new?
what do you say, how often to talk to them, how to act... etc. Any tips like that would be great. :)How do you make friends with someone new?
Just appproach a student in your class or maybe even your dorm hall and introduce yourself, ask what they think about the school/ class, etc. Its easier to make friends when you dont think about. Trust me friends turn up in the most randomest situations and places. Good Luck! :)How do you make friends with someone new?
Well, this isnt kindergarten, so clearly you cant ask to play tag with someone. :P Well, a good way to ';make friends'; Is pertend to not have a pencil or pen on you, and ask someone around you that you wanna be friends with. Or ask people for directions on where classes are, and then be like, sorry whats your name? then you say ok, thanks ____ See you around! You`ll find your friends in college.
Hope everything goes well!
- Serena B.
lol well me and this girl named breana r now very good friends. She was the new girl in school. I showed her around 2 her classez and we bcame so close after that lol just b nice good luck gettin ur friend
If you're boarding in one of the residence halls, it's really easy. Strike upa conversation with some in the food line. Go to functions there. Join one of the student associations. Volunteer your time. Pledge to a fraternity/sorority (at least go to some rush functions). Talk to people win your classes. There are innumerable other ways. If you got to church , synagogue, or mosque, strike up acquaintences. there.
How do you become best friends with someone?
I know this girl and she'd be the perfect best friend. My current best friend is going to another school and inside I think it's good because we have NOTHING and common and she's not the kind of person I can tell my secrets too. The other girl, however is really nice and funny and sweet and we're already friends but I want to become closer. I already have her email address, screen name, and phone number, but I haven't called her because I don't want to invade her.
Any tips?
Thanks!How do you become best friends with someone?
Treat her like a best friend. It is that simple.How do you become best friends with someone?
Just get to know her. Lets her get to know you.Gradually become better friends with her untill you spend most of your time with her. Then your a practilly best friends then.
Becoming someone's best friend does not happen over night. There are no tricks. You can't force someone to be your friend or it blows up in your face.
Just be friends with the girl, get to know her and trust her. Don't go blabbing your secrets to her. A best friend is a person you've known for quite some time and TRUST. That trust and bond takes time to seal. Best friends don't happen over night, but take many years.
Start by either calling her or emailing her (whatever you're more comfortable with and make plans. Find things that you have in common and do them together. Don't make yourself sound desperate however, b/c that can/will actually scare anyone away. Just be yourself and if she likes you, she'll try to get to know you better, too. Good luck!
just ask her to hang out to get the ball rolling . . .dont rush in and start saying ';hey i want you to be my best friend!!!'; take it step by step hang out and talk on the phone kick it then it will eventually happen. (LOL you bogus for dumping your other friend)
Invite her to hang out. Go do something fun that you both like and do some bonding.
You can't make anyone be your best friend. Just hang out with her and in time you'll probably become closer.
Talk to people, its the only unembarrassing way to be friends w/ people.
Can't force her. Just take it one step at a time.
talk to them
What the word friend is meant for you?
It does'nt come in something wanting but it come from the heart and the respect that you contain. then go and tell her what you need!
well spend more time with her talk to her give her a gift if you are afraid to call her ask her when is the best time to talk and sit with her i know that happen to me.
well get 2 no her more..one day just call her 2 c wats up..or email her and based on that youll get closer and colser. then u can call more aften and hit the mall...(thats wat every gurl loves!! lol)
omg-- how old are u?? the last time i had a bff was we were in fourth grade.
just be yourself... ask her if she wants to go to the movies to look for hot guys there alone too... go to a hang out place in your town. Do you scrap book? tell her your interested and see if she wants to do one too.. and plus the scrap booking is totally fun... good luck!
Call her. Best friends are always talking on the phone or hanging out. Invite her to go somewhere.
You can't ';make yourself'; someone's best friend.
Just call her up one day and ask her if she wants to
do whatever you like to do. Go, layout in the sun, shop, go for a blade or a walk, come over and spend the night, watch a movie, go grab a bite to eat. Meet up w/ you and some of your other girlfriends, and if she enjoys your company as much as you enjoy hers, ..................it will just happen.
But don't fret over it.
Any tips?
Thanks!How do you become best friends with someone?
Treat her like a best friend. It is that simple.How do you become best friends with someone?
Just get to know her. Lets her get to know you.Gradually become better friends with her untill you spend most of your time with her. Then your a practilly best friends then.
Becoming someone's best friend does not happen over night. There are no tricks. You can't force someone to be your friend or it blows up in your face.
Just be friends with the girl, get to know her and trust her. Don't go blabbing your secrets to her. A best friend is a person you've known for quite some time and TRUST. That trust and bond takes time to seal. Best friends don't happen over night, but take many years.
Start by either calling her or emailing her (whatever you're more comfortable with and make plans. Find things that you have in common and do them together. Don't make yourself sound desperate however, b/c that can/will actually scare anyone away. Just be yourself and if she likes you, she'll try to get to know you better, too. Good luck!
just ask her to hang out to get the ball rolling . . .dont rush in and start saying ';hey i want you to be my best friend!!!'; take it step by step hang out and talk on the phone kick it then it will eventually happen. (LOL you bogus for dumping your other friend)
Invite her to hang out. Go do something fun that you both like and do some bonding.
You can't make anyone be your best friend. Just hang out with her and in time you'll probably become closer.
Talk to people, its the only unembarrassing way to be friends w/ people.
Can't force her. Just take it one step at a time.
talk to them
What the word friend is meant for you?
It does'nt come in something wanting but it come from the heart and the respect that you contain. then go and tell her what you need!
well spend more time with her talk to her give her a gift if you are afraid to call her ask her when is the best time to talk and sit with her i know that happen to me.
well get 2 no her more..one day just call her 2 c wats up..or email her and based on that youll get closer and colser. then u can call more aften and hit the mall...(thats wat every gurl loves!! lol)
omg-- how old are u?? the last time i had a bff was we were in fourth grade.
just be yourself... ask her if she wants to go to the movies to look for hot guys there alone too... go to a hang out place in your town. Do you scrap book? tell her your interested and see if she wants to do one too.. and plus the scrap booking is totally fun... good luck!
Call her. Best friends are always talking on the phone or hanging out. Invite her to go somewhere.
You can't ';make yourself'; someone's best friend.
Just call her up one day and ask her if she wants to
do whatever you like to do. Go, layout in the sun, shop, go for a blade or a walk, come over and spend the night, watch a movie, go grab a bite to eat. Meet up w/ you and some of your other girlfriends, and if she enjoys your company as much as you enjoy hers, ..................it will just happen.
But don't fret over it.
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