I have been friends with someone for a very long time and i am falling in love with them. how do i tell them?

I have been friends with a boy for a very long time and am beggining to fall in love with them. however, this person is straight and not gay, as i am. what do i do? do i tell this person or not? also, i have been asked to join in in a threesome with this person and his girlfriend. i have said yes. is this right? what advice would you give?I have been friends with someone for a very long time and i am falling in love with them. how do i tell them?
Hiya!





Although others probably will not agree, I say that if you live your life avoiding situations because you are afraid of the outcome you will never be truly happy. Tell your friend how you feel, if he is straight he will explain to you why this cannot work, if he has invited you to partake in a threesome it leads me to believe that maybe he is a bit curious or possibly bi. Either way, I don't believe you should enter into the threesome with him because I think that it may simply be sex for them, but something so much more intimate to you... Tread Lightly but be honest!!!





Hope this helps!





DawnI have been friends with someone for a very long time and i am falling in love with them. how do i tell them?
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If he has a girlfriend and isnt gay you need to put a stop to it now!!! if you have a 3sum it will make things worse and you would properly lose him as a friend altogether!! if he is straight remember he is going to want a 3sum for his g/f which means you properly wont be donig anything with him just her!! not good if you are gay!!! I think deep down you know you cannot be with him so you need to step away otherwise things will get worse i know it is hard because he is your friend and you feel you can talk to him but i dont think you should take it any further
If he is a friend and you want to keep him as such, DO NOT enter a 3 some. You should just tell him no and explain why. Worst he can do is say he doesn't feel the same, then if he dumps you as a friend, he never really was.





Any relationship should always be based on open, honest, direct communication, as you always know where you stand, and it saves misunderstandings.
If you a guy you probably don't have much of a chance, unless he comes out of the closet.





As to your last remark, one word: WTF