How do I stop being friends with someone?

This girl started being friends with me and my two best friends during our junior year of high school and at first it was great but now she's obnoxious and rude and all she does is brag. She has no other friends except the three of us because everyone else thinks she is mean and annoying too. We've drifted apart over the summer, but now that school is starting again, we'll be forced to see her everyday so we'll be right back where we started before this summer. How do we stop being her friend without being mean or hurting her feelings?How do I stop being friends with someone?
Very simple...sit this girl down , with your three friends and say....we've been doing a lot of thinking over the summer and have all come to the same conclusion:





';You've changed, and not for the better. You used to be a lot of fun to hang around, but recently you've become a very mean, hostile person who brags all the time. We find your behavior to be VERY obnoxious and rude, and quite frankly, if you don't change, we are not interested in having you be part of our group anymore. Plain and simple. its up to you.';








The cowards way out would simply be to start ignoring her or leaving her out of outings and so forth...but really...she might not have any clue that how she is bahaving is not appropriate.


Letting her know how you feel is not being mean. Its doing her a favor. She might do YOU a favor and say...well SCREW YOU GUYS.....then you won't have her to worry about anymore.





I agree with 16:26 who answered below 100%How do I stop being friends with someone?
u should talk or chat with her %26amp; if she wants time u should give her because a truely friend is only that helps her friend in all way.


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Just tell her about how you feel. This will do one of two things. She'll either be offended (you have to lay it on REAL thick) and stop hanging out with you, OR she'll realize everything that you're telling her and she'll change her ways and things may get back to how they were when you met. More than likely she'll do the first thing for a couple of days, then she'll do the second thing. Good luck! I love you!
Just sit down and talk to her about it. be mature and everything, but say we just arent a good match for friends, we have different goals and i wanted to finish my highschool years without drama and thats all your going to bring! just say we need to be aqatinces and not really friends anymore
have you tried and talked to her?. all 3 of you guys. i would say that if you don't want to contine being her friends to avoid her for a while and stop talking to her
Give her some new friends to hang out with! It won't hurt to try:) otherwise ignore her, avoid her, don't go near her... you know the drill! lol
Just ignore her. If possible, introduce her to new people.
when she tries to talks ya tell her things like f*ck you bi*ch.and always talk to her like that she will start to hate you.or just ignore her
Just tell her thats she's rude and stuff and you don't like to be around it.
Avoid her.
Kill her.
Give her some time and chat with her about the problem ...........remember a friend in need is a friend indeed
ignore her
1. Decide what reason that you are going to give your friend that you need to dump them. Honesty is usually the best way to go when dumping anyone, however there will be times when you will need to buffer the truth so that you do not hurt your friend’s feelings more then you have to.





2. Ask your friend to meet you at a diner or a coffee shop. It is always better to dump a friend in a public place. This will help you to make this as short and uncomplicated as possible. If you were to try to do this at your or their home, it may lead to hours of crying and frustrating conversation. Short and sweet is the way to keep it when you are about to dump a friend.





3. Tell your friend why you need to dump them. It is easier to get straight to the point of why you asked this meeting. Tell your friend in no uncertain terms that this means that you will not be able to get together and that you would prefer for them not to call you anymore. When you dump a friend, you need to spell out exactly what this means. Many people are unaware of the rules of being dumped as a friend. If you want this to go smoothly, you must tell him.
it will be hard to not be someones friend without hurting their feelings but the best thing to do in this situation would be to just tell her that you dont want to be friends and why you dont want to be friends, to not hurt her feeling as much as that could do you coudl maybe give her an opportunity to change how she is then you can be still friends or if not find new friends.





another things that you could do is when you go beck to school you can try and get her to talke to someone else and then say you dont want to be her friend so atleast she still has someone, but with thins plan it will take more time to do lol.





in the end she wil lwant to know why you dont want to be her friend so just tell her then the sooner the better as she can get over it quicker than if you dont tell her and she continues to annoy you lol hope i helped =]