Monday, August 16, 2010

Can you stay friends with someone if you wanna get over them?

I've been really hurt by this friend and it's always me who tries to fix things. I wanna get away and just forget they ever existed. But I can't and we decided to stay friends.





How can I stay friends with him and not like him? Is it possible?Can you stay friends with someone if you wanna get over them?
yes you can- you DONT HAVE TO visit your friends too often...Can you stay friends with someone if you wanna get over them?
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Well if my friend tries to hurt me then I am setting a bomb to explode them, lol. Of course not.











Have fun, take care.
you can be friends with someone you have feelings for....later. if they are a true ';friend '; then that's what they will remain despite what happens between you. as for now...i'm sad to say you probably need to avoid them a little. be cordial..but don't seek them out during the day to talk or try and occupy yourself with a different group of friends. let your heart have a break...bc think about it....every time you're around him....you're hears working double time to try and keep up wth your feelings and figure everything out....don't do that to yourself. find the other aspects of your life that you love...and focus on them for a while. you'll know when it's time that you can be friends with him without involving more feelings than a friendship requires. good luck...we only have one life...don't waste it on someone who just ';wants to be friends.'; go party your life up with your real friends...when you're not looking bc you're having so much fun...that special person will sneak right into your life...and before you know it...this situation you're in now will seem like smallest thing compared to the big picture you have insight to!
The point is ..it's your friend -NOT YOU- who decides to stay as friends... What would happen if you decided to stay friends and this friend of yours didn't want to?


It's impossible to be friends or to make friends with those we don't like ! What a strange idea you 've got here ! Just get rid of it ! Be strong enough to get on your own way. OK ?
If it is really impossible for you to avoid him, the only thing I can suggest is doing things in groups when you are with him. Make sure there is very limited one on one time and keep in mind your relationship with him as it is moving forward into the future, not what it may have been in the past.
from personal experience i can say YES, it is possible but the best advice i can give is time will heal all wounds. you might have to stop seeing him or being so close to him for a while but eventually it will seem like nothing ever happened.
Nope get away. If its just you can always get another. If this friend was at one time more then just a friend then you may be inclined to stick around longer. unfortunately you will one day see this person with someone else, which will just hurt you. So either way get away.
I don't think it's possible. I've never seen it work successfully and it can get pretty ugly and confusing.
oh hun do what you want he obviously cares enough to stay friends...you'll feel a hole if you leave completely...he makes you whole...and if you fall in love again so what..you were meant for each other
Yes, it's hard enough to make friends these days and you'll need every friend you can get.
It can work but it is difficult. You need forgiveness.
it's a hard thing to do, and I don't think you can. Move on!
In my experience No!





I just don;t think it works. And I have not seen it work with others either.
You are doomed if you pursue this policy.
No i think you'll fall in love with him so move on mate. Plenty of fish in the sea
well if you dont like him then dont just talk to him

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