Friday, August 20, 2010

What To Do? If you dated someone for a year......?

I dated a guy for a year and he broke up with me to date someone else, we have stayed friends the whole time (3 years now) mostly because he loves my son. Now he is single, I'm single and I have loved him for 3 years but i don't know if we are going to end up back in a relationship or not and it's making me nuts not knowing. He is great with my son 3 and daughter 5 months but everythime we hang out it's different between us. sometimes we are coupleish other times just friends! Someone Help Me, Plaease Give Me You Opinion On How To Handel This!What To Do? If you dated someone for a year......?
I think you're going to have to let this guy call the shots unfortunately. The person who did the breaking up is the person who really has to decide whether or not they see something they didn't see before or just want to give it another try. If you really want to be with him then you might want to bring the subject up in a serious way and let him know that no matter what he says or feels it doesn't have to change anything between you. You could just say something like ';You know we've been friends so long and really still get along so well, I've thought about whether we should try again. What do you think?'; If he says he's not interested then just back off and continue the friendship. It's more important to keep that in tact especially since you have been friends this long.What To Do? If you dated someone for a year......?
dont, he dumped you for someone else before, he will do it again
sit him down and see if you can get him to give you some answers you have waited long enough for him to make a move and if he doesnt then move on...
i wouldn't rush back into a relationship though y'all seem like y'all love each other... continue being friends and let nature takes it course... if it was meant to be it will... don't let your love or your children be the reason to get back together.. you both must want the same thing for thing s to work... how do you know he doesn't still have feelings for the other woman still?
throw a rock and see if it throws one back at ya
You said it yourself...............friends because he loves your son....................really he did break up with you to date someone else............Let him go........if he cares he will come back and you and him will be more then friends...........................
What I would do is tell him how you feel about everything and let him know that you have feelings for him. See if this works and if it doesn't keep comunicating with him as a friend and give him hints that you love him.

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