Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you casually become friends with someone you've never spoken to before?

I'm a sophomore in high school, and there's this guy who's a senior. We're both in marching band. For some strange reason, I want to become his friend sooooo bad. Haha. :D I have absolutely no friend connections or anything like that, and we've never formally met or talked. What are some ways to befriend/approach him without coming off as creepy or stalkerish? Haha lol thanks :)How do you casually become friends with someone you've never spoken to before?
The key to not appearing stalkerish is to not look desperate. If it seems like you care to much about his opinion, it just shows that you don't have much faith in yourself. Which makes you look creepy and stalkerish.





So yeah. Just start casual conversation. Go out with some mutual friends. Make an observation and comment on it. Don't force the conversation; just let it happen :DHow do you casually become friends with someone you've never spoken to before?
Hey Annie! This sounds interesting. :) Are you friends on facebook? That's a good place to start. And talk to him casually whenever you guys bump into each other in the band room. Tell me all about it!

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