How do I NOT be friends with someone again?

i used to be friends with this one girl and told her i couldnt hang out with her any more because of this thing she said to me... now she wants to be my friend again and i really dont want to be her friend again. it's REALLY hard to avoid her because of cheerleanding and all but i just dont want to just go forgive her because she was really rude to me... when we were friends she told people things about me that i made her promise to NEVER mention... what should i do?How do I NOT be friends with someone again?
ill- matters in a world of werx!!! Really, how can we deal with difficult beings? Is positive enforcement really positive?





Breathe. You don't have to do anything that is against what is in you (unless your committing murderous acts or something nutty). You can choose to believe what is expected of you.





Enforced reality.





Cheer- leading!?! Funny. You can explosively encourage her to keep talking by saying while she's talking, ';Wow!! That is amazing!! That is huge!! You are awesome!! I've never heard of that before!! You should be a model!!';. If you comment on things that she is not doing at the time she will only wonder. Eventually, and as long as you repeat the same phrases over and over, in time, she will come to realize that she is being mocked, disliked etc and you will never need to deal w/ her again.





Isn't that sick? I've only learned to do this because I was told the opposite vulgarly. Reversing it is pretty much the same thing.





As unconstructive as that truly deeply seems; if ya'd like to avoid the mushy stuff in between, this is the way to go. The odds of her questioning ';why is it'; you are approaching her in this form is....How do I NOT be friends with someone again?
I understand how you feel.. .say it like this ';its nothing personal but i dont want to be your friend anymore, plus its not even like we have anything in common anymore , i mean i'v grown out of that friendship we had'; ... and have a cold stare on your face .. trust me she won't ever bother you again . .%26amp;%26amp; she'll know you mean business plus that will scare her off so she wont be spreading any rumors about you! %26lt;3 hope i helped
Tell her that because she did that, you cannot trust her anymore. There's no point in having a friend you can't trust. Friends are supposed to be there for you to talk to about the things you can't talk to others about... tell her that you just can't see her the same way anymore.
explain to her how much she hurt you and why you cant be her friend anymore and if she really wants to be friends to give you space to let you deal with things.





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