How to stay friends with someone you broke his heart?

First thing is, I have a serious boyfriend for 3 years now, and there is this guy whom I know for a year from the workplace. I like him a lot and he likes me too, he never knows that I have a boyfriend though. We contacted each other on a friendship basis even if it's not so often but everytime we talked, there's something telling me that we were more than just friends. Then we lost our contacts because we were so busy with our lives. And I thought I was over this feeling, then I met him again and all the feeling just kept coming back. He told me he had had nobody but me in his heart. As for me, I am planning to get married. Torn feeling between the two, I chose my boyfriend and broke his heart. ';I love you as much as I hate you';, that's what he said. His eyes said he was really hurt to find out that I had a boyfriend but he smiled and walked away. I felt worse because I just lost a special person. I tried to contact him many times but he didn't pick up the phone. What should I do?How to stay friends with someone you broke his heart?
LEAVE HIM ALONE AND HE WILL CONTACT YOU WHEN HE IS READYHow to stay friends with someone you broke his heart?
Yes, leave him alone he is going to be like for awhile he is probably trying to find himself but when you do talk to him again cut it short dont involve him in your life again cause ill hurt him again. ok
There is nothing you can do.... You have hurt him... and no ways you can change it back... or else u will have to hurt more people..!


A Friendship may end up in love... But Love can never end in friendship...! so dont even try!
i think u the guy tt u have know for a yr, u jus have a crush on him...cause if it's really true love,u will miss him like mad..the feeling will only come back when it's a crush i think u should marry ur serious boyfren ...it's called trulove...i don really wan to interfere in it but think it over ok?(i think u should have a good tok with all of them tell them how u feel and stuff)