Someone help!?! my friends leaving me for her bf!?

i was always there for her.


etc


she gets a bf and totally leaves me.


i understand seeing him now and again


but she spends EVERYDAY at his house


and sometimes even twaggs school to go to his.


i have to make plans for the week after if i want to lark out with her.


and if she does make plans


her bf goes in a mood for 'leaving him' on that night.





i need to give her some friendship rules


and how to treat your friends





someone help me!!?


Someone help!?! my friends leaving me for her bf!?
omg that's soooo annoying!


i hate little bitches who are obsessed with their boyfriends, omg annoying! and ditching school to go with her lame bf? wow, drop the *****. they're gonna break up and she's gonna be like ';poor me, i need comfort best friend, give me your attention!';


she seems like a little ***** who needs to stop being a hornball and be what a friend should be. you wait and see, theyre going to break up and she won't have any friends and then she'll realized that her boyfriend was a pussssy (';omg you left me on that night, wahhhhh';) and i guess you could point all of that out, but in a nice way, if she's like ';but i love him, you don't understand'; take it from me, i had a bf that i was like obsessed with but like he was moving to the other side of the country. i find that to be a good excuse. but like don't blow off your best friend for some stupid femanine boy. i understand that she's wrong! and yeah the whole ';you left me for once in your obsessed life for that girl, what's her name?'; like bf are such ***** to girl's friends. eat emm fo dinnuhhhh :DSomeone help!?! my friends leaving me for her bf!?
Now let's be clear...this is your friend right? And she has a new bf that she wants to spend as much time with as she wants. How am I doing? You want her to spend more time than she wants to with you and you feel you need to give her some friendship rules and inform her how to treat a friend right? A friend wants a friend to be happy and will step aside for that, wouldn't you say? Well, you need to get yourself someone who wants to spend as much time with you as you want because you deserve someone who will treat you special and that you don't have to make a appointment to be with. A friendship is different than a relationship which comes first always, unless there is an emergency with a friend of course. I do think your friend could be more considerate of your feels and maybe that's what you need to talk about, but don't forget she now has a new bf and she no longer needs from you what she once did. I know the hurt and lost you feel, but now you must do what she did; find someone to fill that void in your life. Your friend is still your friend, but now there's a new person in her life that..........
This stage wont last forever, I promise.. a true friend will be there waiting when she finally gets dumped or annoyed by his obsession with her. You need to be a strong friend and be patient, your friendship will be stronger for it and you both will be there for each other as you learn valuable lessons for future relationships... don't hit her with the friendship rules just yet, it will only drive her away from you and more into this BF...then they both might gang up on you, in this stage of the game your friend might say and do things that she doesn't really mean and will regret later... pick your battles wisely and wait for the right time to share your feelings.. Be a true friend.... Good Luck
She's not going to listen to you. I say to find other friends and let her be with her boyfriend. Once he breaks her heart, and if he does, she will come back crying to you. Once that does happen, be that shoulder to cry on. I was both the girl that was ignored by friends and the person waiting for my best friend to come back. It's hard, but you can do it. If the cycle repeats, I would just find a new best friend, since that's what she sounds like to me.





Good luck!
explain to her that you are happy she has a boyfriend %26amp;%26amp; she is happy but she is starting to neglect the friendship the two of you share. Its good that they spend alot of time together but there should atleast be sometime for you two. if she doesn't change it she doesn't want to so just let it go, people change just always be there for her her eyes will open up eventually
I know what you mean. But here is what you have to do. It may sound like a bad thing and you wouldn't want to do it but you kind of have to. You just have to wait it out. Se will brake up with him eventually. Sorry if this is no help, but I used to have to do this all the time. Hope this helps.
try talking to her she might not even know that shes hurting you and ask her about it and the way it sounds is that her boyfriend is just a smidge controlling anyway goodluck
Don't worry this relationship will be over soon, especially if her boyfriend is trying to make her feel bad for actually going out with someone other than him. Just wait, and you two will be best friends again
leave her be.


her bf is a twit , and she is a cling on


once they break up she'll be crawling back to you :)
just leave her be. after they break up she'll start comin back to u and start talkin to u. but when she does tell her how u felt when she left u
yeah... just talk to her an tell her how u feel... if she is ur real friend she'll understand and listen