Monday, August 9, 2010

How can I stop being friends with someone?

There is a fellow who e-mails me occasionally and invites me to do things. In the past I've felt obligated to go. He's nice, but I don't feel that we have much in common.





I don't really want to continue being friends with him, so I've been ignoring his attempts to contact me.





Is this wrong? I feel bad because he is a nice guy.How can I stop being friends with someone?
I had a friend like this too and I ultimately came to the conclusion that it was better to avoid her than to pretend I liked her out of obligation... if I was in her shoes I would not want anyone pretending that they liked me out of obligation, that's not a real friendship. So I think you are justified in continuing to avoid him, he will get the hint.How can I stop being friends with someone?
I believe you have taken the right steps by ignoring him firstly. Most girls would continue to ignore him, but how would he know not to bother calling you unless he was informed otherwise?





As communication is at the heart of every interaction, all you need to do is to let him know you both have nothing in common, and that you don't feel comfortable with him. But wish him well because you sincerely think he's a nice guy. I'm sure he's mature enough to get the message and move on. If he's an adult, he can handle the truth like a man.





I take it you're a considerate person who is sensitive at the same time, that is why you feel its wrong. But there's nothing wrong in sharing the truth.
You have to let him know, be honest because obviously he isn't getting the hint. If he still contacts you afterwards; then keep ignoring him by blocking him on your email account and however else he is contacting you. Never feel bad about not connecting with a person; it happens.
It's terrible to say but ignoring him is probably the best solution. I would block him, so I didn't even get the emails. It's life I suppose and eventually (hopefully) he'd get the message. The only other way would be to ';break up'; with him. ;)
You can try to avoid him or just introduce him to somebody new...
Don't feel wrong just tell him you don't like him and that's it nobody is obligated to be somebodies friend.
Introduce him to someone else, they might get along and you won't have to worry about it anymore.
yes, first dont be ignoring him cuz that hurts his feeling .... why are u ingnoring? is he being mean ? .. tell him how u feel .
come to his house and shoot the dumb bastard.
Just keep ignoring him. He'll get the message soon enough.

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