What do you do when your not friends with someone but they think you are and no matter how many times you tell?

my friend from kindergarden was my best friend untill 3rd grade but she still thinks of me as a friend no matter how many years i've been trying to tell her she just does'nt listen!!! i need help on knowing what to tell her but i hate her guts and she thinks of me as a true friend and so plz help AND FAST PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What do you do when your not friends with someone but they think you are and no matter how many times you tell?
The thing about friends is not everyone knows how to be one. This girl who was your friend long ago obviously still cares enough about you to consider you a friend. Most people should be so lucky as to have friends like her that are willing to take the crap you're throwing in her face, and still call you ';friend'; because you certainly don't deserve her loyalty. However, that's not your question. Your question is how do i tell her we aren't friends anymore?





Have you tried HONESTY??


Sit her down 1 on 1 and say to her: I know you still think of me as your friend, but we have grown apart and I do not consider you a friend of mine anymore. My life has taken a different direction and you don't fit in with where I am going now developmentally.





(Then when you're done breaking her heart this way and seeing her face crumble as EVERYTHING she thought about you being her best friend and confidant was wrong) sit back and pray to whatever Higher Power you believe in you're never going to need her down the road, or that someone YOU really care for as a close friend doesn't treat you the way you have this girl.)What do you do when your not friends with someone but they think you are and no matter how many times you tell?
These situations are sticky. But sometimes honesty is the best policy. Tell her that you've grown apart and your interests and energy are focused in a different place. Tell her that because of that you can't be the friend she needs you to be, and that you recommend she branches out and finds people who can really give her the time and attention she needs. You can tell her that you won't rule out having a closer relationship in the future but for now you need your space and can't promise you'll be there when she needs you. It may seem harsh, but you'll both end up wasting a lot less time once you tell her how you truly feel. Then always be polite when you see her as you would be to any other human being but don't go out of your way for her out of guilt. No guilt.
just kind of slowly drift away from her. find different ways to go at school to avoid her.just give her short answers and repsonses when she talks to you. she'll ask what's going on and you can say im not your friend. just be nice about it. i've had to deal with this and she wont leave until you turn your back away and start doing something else. i had no choice today but to vote for her for student council!
First of all, why don't you want to be her friend?


Secondly, don't tell her like a jerk. Say that you need some space.